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WORDS
M. WORDS by Ted Nicholas Copyright 2001
The words with which you communicate determine the quality of your life.
This is true whether communicating with others or with yourself. Especially with yourself
Words have the power to induce someone to laugh, to cry, to be kind, to be loving, to be cooperative, or to buy or be unkind, angry, irrational.
When words are spoken, the added factors of voice timbre, emphasis, emotion….
I define negative manipulation in this context, the use of words that causes others to act for the benefit of the communicator.
Positive manipulation is when certain words tend to cause responses that are of mutual benefit to the speaker or writer and the person with whom you communicate.
People all over the world really want to accommodate their fellow humans. But they must be approached properly.
Little people mean a lot.
Who do you think will get special consideration when it is requested? The open and kind caring person? Or the person who treats the “little” people as though they were invisible?
Practice saying the secret words with
v A smile (you can even hear a smile on the telephone);
v A warm, rich tone to your voice;
v Enthusiasm in what you request;
v Good eye contact;
v A firm handshake;
v Sincerity – you can’t fake friendliness;
v A purposeful posture – standing tall; and
v A manner that communicates an expectation that you deserve and expect to get what you request.
The loudness of the inner words along with the richness of tone used when we say the combine to produce our inner emotional state. Interestingly our communication to others reflects this inner state. It can’t be hidden , at least not for long.
Humour
WHAT THEY TELL YOU IN CAPS what it means in small
JOIN OUR FAST-PACED COMPANY":
We have no time to train you.
"CASUAL WORK ATMOSPHERE": We don't pay enough to expect that you'll dress up; well, a couple of the real daring guys wear earrings.
"MUST BE DEADLINE ORIENTED":
You'll be six months behind schedule on your first day.
"SOME
OVERTIME REQUIRED": Some time each night and some time each
weekend.
"DUTIES WILL VARY": Anyone in the office can
boss you around.
"MUST HAVE AN EYE FOR DETAIL": We have
no quality control.
Walls of separation have been built up between the whites and the blacks. These walls of prejudice will tumble down of themselves as did the walls of Jericho, when Christians obey the Word of God, which enjoins on them supreme love to their Maker and impartial love to their neighbors. The religion of the Bible recognizes no caste or color. It ignores rank, wealth, worldly honor. God estimates men as men. With Him, character decides their worth. And we are to recognize the Spirit of Christ in whomsoever He is revealed.
– The Review and Herald, December 17, 1895, Testimonies for the Church Vol 9 p. 223.
Successful
daters are those who don't need to date anymore. They found their
soul mate, married and are now in a relationship which is growing
stronger, more supportive and loving over time. When you are dating,
don't ask yourself: can this person give me what I need, ask instead
(or in addition): can I see myself wanting to give to this person for
the rest of my life? Do I see in this person such a vista of
potential that I want to invest in him or her?
Step back,
observe and consider: Does this person have the character, values and
goals that will foster a desire in me to help him (or her)?
A
focus on giving (healthy giving without an agenda, neediness or
negativity) fosters feelings of connection and love. This binds
people together in such a way that even challenges will bring them
closer together.
So can you find this out in the first 7
minutes? Unlikely. But give this question a try - the next time you
sit physically or electronically across from a date, ask yourself: is
there any possibility I would enjoy giving to this person? And if the
answer is yes - go on another date. Who knows, this could be the
start of an eternal connection.
7 Drugs You Can Legally
Grow in Your Home more...
http://2leep.com/news/41662/109/read/
I
visited this link and only got a picture not the list of 7
I think
it is blocked on this part of the world.
Wanted you to visit it,
save it as .pdf or .doc then email it zipped.
Make Happiness
Make a wish, Make it grand,
Make it big as
you can stand.
Make it loud, Make it strong,
Make
it up as you go along.
Make a difference, Make your
mark,
Make your own creative spark.
Make a
statement, Make it true,
Make it from the heart of you.
Make
a scene, Make a face,
Make yourself some breathing-space.
Make
a way, Make more time,
to laugh and play.
Make
peace, Make amends,
Make a promise make new friends.
Make
it work, Make it go,
Make it "yes" instead of "no".
Make some music, Make some noise,
Make a list of
simple joys.
Make some cookies, Make some tea,
Make
a date with destiny.
Make a try, Make a guess,
Make
a choice for happiness.
Make your life anything
and
everything you want it to be!
Here are some links to
photos on net.
Women Drivers
more...
http://2leep.com/news/120688/109/read/
Funny
Cartoons – 43
Pictures
http://2leep.com/news/168202/109/more/
Wise
Picture URL (may lead to the source of wisdom to
some)
http://www.spiritlessons.com/Documents/Posters/FoolAndWiseMan.pdf
Are you looking for someone to love you
unconditionally, well I want you to know that person is not me. But,
If you are, I can help you.
Cyberwall
A cyberwall is similar in scope to a firewall,
but instead of
offering perimeter defense filtering between two or more
networks, cyberwalls are typically installed on desktop and
server systems on the inside network at a corporate site.
Cyberwalls provide a defensive barrier to attacks on
mission critical systems on internal networks and help
“harden” the operating system environment from a network
attack. Some cyberwalls also include intrusion detection
software to allow the system to detect an attack of specific
types in progress and effect some levels of defense against
them. While a firewall is a description of a system (one or more pieces
of hardware) that acts as a barrier between two or more
network segments. A firewall can be used to provide a
barrier between an internal network and the Internet. A
firewall can be considered the technical implementation of a
security policy. The firewall upholds the security policy of a
network when connecting that network to a second network
which has a less stringent security policy.
Seven_virtues
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Seven_virtues
Food
Sex
http://www.funpages.com/foodsex/
Kiss
A kiss is the touching of one person's lips
to another place, which is used as an expression of affection,
respect, greeting, farewell, good luck, romantic affection or sexual
desire. The word comes from Old English cyssan "to kiss",
in turn from coss "a kiss".
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The
physiology of kissing
Kissing is a complex behavior that
requires significant muscular coordination; a total of thirty-four
facial muscles and 112 postural muscles are used during a kiss.[6][7]
The most important muscle involved is the orbicularis oris muscle,
which is used to pucker the lips and informally known as the kissing
muscle.[citation needed] In the case of the French kiss, the tongue
is also an important part. Lips have many nerve endings so they are
sensitive to touch and bite.[8]
Health benefits
Affection
in general has stress-reducing affects. Kissing in particular has
been studied in a controlled experiment: increasing the frequency of
kissing in marital and cohabiting relationships was found to result
in a reduction of perceived stress, an increase in relationship
satisfaction, and a lowering of cholesterol levels.[10]
Kissing
in religion This section does not cite any references or
sources.
This woodcut of the practice of kissing the
Pope's toe is from Passionary of the Christ and Antichrist by
Cranach.
Muslims may kiss the Black Stone during Hajj (pilgrimage
to Mecca).
In Ancient Rome and some modern Pagan beliefs,
worshipers when passing the statue or image of a god or goddess will
kiss their hand and wave it towards the deity (adoration).
In the
gospels of Matthew and Mark (Luke and John omit this) Judas betrayed
Jesus with a kiss—an instance of a kiss intertwined with betrayal.
This is the basis of the term 'the kiss of Judas'
The holy kiss or
kiss of peace is a traditional part of most Christian liturgies,
though usually replaced with an embrace or handshake today in Western
cultures
The Pope will kiss the ground on arrival to a new
country.
Visitors to the Pope traditionally kiss his foot. (The
ring of a cardinal or bishop, hand of a priest.)
Jews will kiss
the Western wall of the Holy Temple in Jerusalem, and other religious
articles during prayer such as the Torah, usually by touching their
hand, Tallis, or Siddur (prayerbook) to the Torah and then kissing
it. Jewish law prohibits kissing members of the opposite sex, except
for certain close relatives. See Negiah.
Eastern Orthodox and
Eastern Catholic Christians often kiss the icons around the church as
entering, they will also kiss the cross and / or the priests hand in
certain other customs in the Church, such as confession or receiving
a blessing.
Catholics will kiss rosary beads as a part of prayer,
or kiss their hand after making the sign of the cross. It is also
common to kiss the wounds on a crucifix, or any other image of
Christ's Passion.
Hindus sometimes kiss the ground of a
temple.
Local lore in Ireland suggests that kissing the Blarney
Stone leads to good luck.
Different Types of Kisses –
Various Kinds of Kisses
12/18/09
Different Types of Kisses –
Various Kinds of Kisses
04:36:53 am, by loveguru, 1532 words
Categories: Sex & Health
“A kiss is a pleasant
reminder that two heads are better than one”! Now, who wouldn’t
agree with me on this statement? A gentle kiss from your lover or
spouse can lift your spirits and make you feel wonderfully happy even
when you are depressed. A relationship is all about trying out new
things to keep away boredom and monotony from setting in. a fun way
to do that is by trying out different types of kisses. It can take
your relationship to a whole new level and both will be glad that you
tried it, since it will bond you all the more closer.
As we
all know, there are many types of kiss. Here are some of them, Check
out what they mean:
Angel Kiss
A very sweet and comforting
kiss, the angel kiss is one in which you lightly kiss your partner
right on the eye lids or just next to the eyes.
Cheek
Kiss
This is the most preferred kind of kiss for a first date. It
gives the friendly signal of “I really like you” to the other
person. Place your hands on your partner’s shoulder, lean forward
and plant a soft kiss on the cheek.
Chew Kiss
While kissing
tell your partner to place their tongue in your mouth. Very VERY
GENTLY chew on their back of the tongue. Do not suck. This creates a
sensation that can be very exciting.
Copy Cat Kiss
Just
imitate the way your partner kisses. Copy every act of their
kiss.
Cordial Kissing (Hot/Cold Kiss, Trickle Kiss)
Sip a
very small amount of your favourite drink, either hot or cold and
when you just begin to kiss, pour the drink into your partner's
mouth. It will leave behind a sensational feeling. Some love this
type of kiss and some cringe with the thought of it.
Butterfly
Kiss
A very cute gesture, you don’t really kiss in this one.
Bring your faces close to each other and flutter your eyelids
together. Of course, this ignites pleasure and you go ahead to have a
wonderful kiss!
Earlobe Kiss
As the name suggests, you
need to kiss and very gently suck on the earlobe of your partner. Be
careful not to nip or bite since ear lobes are very soft. Make soft
groaning noises but don’t squeal since you are kissing on the ears!
Eskimo Kiss
This is definitely one of the cutest ways to
begin a kiss. Bring your faces together and very lightly rub your
noses together. It is a wonderfully loving gesture that your partner
will adore.
Flavour Kiss
Just before you decide to kiss
your partner pop in a long lasting flavoured chewing gum into your
mouth. Pass this gum along each other's mouth and see how long the
flavour last.
Freeze Kiss
This is a fun kiss to experiment
with. Take a small piece of ice and put it in your mouth. Don’t
swallow! Gently hold your partner and kiss softly on the lips. While
kissing, open your mouth and make your partner open his/her mouth
lightly. Pass the ice with your tongue for an exciting sensation.
French Kiss
Also known as the “Soul Kiss”, the French
kiss is a passionate form of kissing. Start with a soft kiss on the
lips and very slowly start exploring your partner’s mouth with your
tongue.
Forehead Kiss
The protective kiss. The motherly
kiss or just friends kiss. This kiss is the most comforting kiss for
anyone. Just brush your lips against their forehead.
Foot
Kiss
For feet kiss you need to gently suck the toes and then kiss
the foot. While kissing the foot gently massage the base of the foot.
It might tickle, relax and enjoy it.
Hand Kiss
This one is
ideally done by the dude. Take your girlfriend’s hand in your hand
and lightly kiss the top of her hand. In the days of yore, the man
used to bow or go down on one knee and then perform this kiss.
Hickey Kiss
While kissing your partner gently suck them
near the neck. Please do not be too hard or bite. It will hurt them.
Your kiss will leave behind a mark.
Hot n Cold Kiss
A very
exciting kiss, in this, you need to put a cold drink in your mouth
and tell your partner to have a warm drink. Have the sensation in
your mouths and kiss passionately. You will be left with a wonderful
sensation after you are done kissing.
Lasts Longer Kiss
Sit
very close to each other. Your lips should almost be touching your
partner's lips and arms can be where you please to keep them. Sit in
this way, and see who can control without kissing the other. It is
great, because even if you lose on purpose, you still WIN!
Marathon
Kissing
This kiss is just to find out how long you and your
partner can kiss at a stretch. Try kissing for 5-10 minutes without
stopping. The longer the better right!!!
Motion Kiss
Begin
kissing slowly, and then start to increase the speed. Once the kiss
is sped up you should also slow it down. Too much of everything is
too bad.
Neck Kiss
This is a very sensual kiss. You need to
come up from behind your partner, embrace gently and kiss the back of
the neck. Slowly proceed to the side while kissing and withdraw
gently.
Nip Kiss
It creates a very erotic sensation. While
kissing your partner gently nibble on their lips. Be careful not to
bite or hurt them. If done correctly and passionately it ignites
amazing sensations.
Shoulder Kiss
Known to be a sensual and
loving kiss, the shoulder kiss involves coming from behind your
partner and kissing on top of the shoulder a few times.
Sigh
Kiss
While kissing gently lick your partner's lips with the tip of
your tongue. Then blow or sigh into their lips. It will cause a
tingling effect and will also intensify the kiss for sure.
Sip
Kiss
This is a fun kiss to try with your partner. Take a sip of
your favorite drink and leave a bit of it on your lips. Now kiss your
partner and create an enjoyable and sensual feeling.
Stomach
Kiss
Gently kiss and nibble on your partners stomach, sometimes it
leads to other things.
Suck Kissing
A seductive kiss. Just
like French Kissing, while your partner's lips are slightly parted,
suck on their upper or lower lip, just for a second or two. You could
continue as long as you want or you could try out a variety of
kisses.
Surprise Kiss
Surprise your partner when they are
asleep, get close and gently kiss them on their lips, intensify the
kiss till your partner gets up.
Tickle Kiss
Begin with a
French kiss and once your tongue is in your partner's mouth, stroke
your tongue across the roof their mouth. Your partner could do the
same to you. This will bring unbearable chills. The roof of your
mouth is one of the most ticklish parts of the body. This kiss is
different every time you do it.
Tongue Kiss
While French
kissing your partner; gently suck their tongue while it's in your
mouth. This produces a wonderful, erotic feeling for both!
Tiger
Kiss
Do it like a playful tiger! They sneak upon their prey and
attack without any noise. Sneak up behind your partner and grab
him/her out of the blue. While he/she still tries to get over the
pleasant shock, start nibbling and lightly kissing their neck and
don’t forget to growl like a cub!
Upside-Down Kiss
Seen
Spiderman? He lowers himself head-first while dangling from his web
and passionately kisses MJ. Since you cannot dangle from anywhere,
you kiss your partner when he/she is lying down or seated. Come from
behind and have them tilt their head backwards. Gently kiss the lower
lip and feel your partner breathing softly on your neck.
Underwater
Kiss
Ever tried kissing underwater. It is a unique and a lovely
feeling. Find your partner underwater and kiss them. If you gasp for
breath you'll be back at the top. If you want to continue the kiss it
is left entirely up to you and your partner.
Vacuum Kiss
A
playful kiss. When kissing slightly suck as though you were sucking
air from your partner's mouth.
Kissing is an art and a skill.
One that everyone should master because it’s a beautiful piece of
art that two people create together. Kisses should be meaningful yet,
lustful. Kissing is where it begins and where it ends, so be a good
kisser. Practice makes perfect, ask an old partner to help you (even
practice with them) if they will let you (it should be fun). Look in
the mirror, study your lips, practice on a pillow, but whatever you
do, be a good kisser; it could make or break your relationship.
Create desire through kissing, know your mouth, your lips and know
how to use them when kissing another.
Joke
Ol' Fred had been a faithful Christian and was in the hospital, near death. The family
called their pastor to stand with them. As the pastor stood next to the bed, Ol' Fred's
condition appeared to deteriorate and he motioned frantically for something to write on.
The pastor lovingly handed him a pen and a piece of paper, and Ol' Fred used his last
bit of energy to scribble a note, then he died. The pastor thought it best not to look at the
note at that
time, so he placed it in his jacket pocket.
At the funeral, as he was finishing the message, he realized that he was wearing the
same jacket that he was wearing when Ol' Fred died. He said, "You know, Ol' Fred
handed me a note just before he died. I haven't looked at it, but knowing Fred, I'm sure
there's a word of inspiration there for us all."
He opened the note, and read, " you're standing on my oxygen tube!"
Intelligence
Intelligence, as measured
by IQ and other aptitude tests, is widely used in educational,
business, and military settings due to its efficacy in predicting
behavior. g is highly correlated with many important social outcomes
- individuals with low IQs are more likely to be divorced, have a
child out of marriage, be incarcerated, and need long term welfare
support, while individuals with high IQs are associated with more
years of education, higher status jobs and higher income.[24]
Intelligence is significantly correlated with successful training and
performance outcomes, and g is the single best predictor of
successful job performance.[25]
Joke
Top 10 reasons why you should go
to work naked
10. No one ever steals your chair.
9.
Gives "bad hair day" a whole new meaning.
8.
Diverts attention from the fact that you also came to work drunk.
7. People stop stealing your pens after they've seen where
you keep them.
6. You want to see if it's like the dream.
5. To stop those creepy programmer guys from looking down
your blouse.
4. "I'd love to chip in... but I left my
wallet in my pants."
3. Inventive way to finally meet
that 'special' person in Human Resources.
2. Can take
advantage of your computer monitor radiation to work on your tan.
And the number one reason to go to work naked...
Your boss will never say, "I wanna see your ass in here
by 8:00!" ever again.
P/S: The above info is a
joke, so for some of you please do not do it, no one wants to see
...........
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The Overweight Epidemic
In the past, we have always associated poverty with being terribly thin, mostly due
to starvation. When I was young I wanted to grow up to be a “rich fat man.”
Today, the tables have turned; “poor” and “fat” have become synonymous, and
“rich fat man” has become an oxymoron! Centuries ago, the only corpulent people
were royalty and wealthy landowners. Today, the lower the income, the more we see
obesity, and the higher the income, the more we see men and women who are fit
and trim, defying their age.
Since 1980, we have more than doubled the percentage of overweight and obese
people in the United States. In 1980, 15 percent of the population was obese;
by the year 2000, that number had jumped to 27 percent—that’s 77 million clinically
obese people! Today, 61 percent of the U.S. population is overweight and
headed towards obesity—which has increased 10 percent to almost 30 percent of
the U.S. population. As a result, 18 million Americans have diabetes and another
41 million over age 40 have prediabetes. Most people with prediabetes develop
type 2 diabetes in 10 years. Sixty-five percent of people with diabetes die from
heart disease or stroke, and the medical costs alone to treat diabetes now exceeds
$100 billion a year.
Moreover, overweight and obesity are also symptoms of poor nutrition. Typically someone
who is obese is also vitamin-deficient and suffers from fatigue and arthritis or other ailments
that all stem from poor nutrition. Our food industry, which represents about one trillion
dollars annually, exacerbates the problem by catering to the “lowest common denominator”
of poor nutrition.
What about our health care? The truth is, what we call “health care” is not really the health
business but the sickness business. Our medical industry today has very little to do with health.
The $2 trillion we spend on medical care, which represents one-sixth of the U.S. economy, is
concerned almost exclusively with treating the symptoms of illness. It has very little to do with
preventing illnesses or with making people feel stronger or healthier.
This same shift in expectations is a strong contributing
factor in network marketing as well. In
the new economy, the sheer quantity of compensation
is no longer enough. People today also
demand a better quality of compensation. We
don’t simply want money, we want lifestyle.
Today’s workers understand that it doesn’t matter
how much money you earn if you never get to see
your spouse or children, or if you sacrifice your
health for your work.
This is a demand that didn’t exist in the past.
During the Industrial Age, the question “Are you
truly happy with your life?” would have been
greeted by most as self-indulgent nonsense.
“Happy?! What a question! I’m making money.”
Today we want more. Our economy and living
standards have grown to the point where we not
only expect to make a living, but also expect to
have the best possible experience living that life.
We don’t want to have to sacrifice family for work,
or vice versa.
Indeed, the founding documents of most religions demonstrate that God wants us to be well—Deuteronomy contains expansive portions on diet, and gluttony was one of the original seven deadly sins. Yet today, the crying secular need of learning to live a wellness lifestyle of diet and exercise is ignored by most religions and religious organizations.
Riches are not only measured in terms of money.
Understanding, knowledge, wisdom, love (things that are heavenly and come from God) etc are also viewed as unseen great riches. God is very fair asking for only 10% while He owns it all. The rest is given as offering. Life is not just about money. God wants people to be abundantly rich ask any preacher its in the bible about opening the flood gates of heaven
KJV 1 Timothy 6:
9 But they that will be rich fall into temptation and a snare, and into many foolish and hurtful lusts, which drown men in destruction and perdition.
10 For the love of money is the root of all evil: which while some coveted after, they have erred from the faith, and pierced themselves through with many sorrows.
17 Charge them that are rich in this world, that they be not highminded, nor trust in uncertain riches, but in the living God, who giveth us richly all things to enjoy;
18 That they do good, that they be rich in good works, ready to distribute, willing to communicate;
19 Laying up in store for themselves a good foundation against the time to come, that they may lay hold on eternal life.
KJV 1 John 4:7
Beloved, let us love one another: for love is of God; and every one
that loveth is born of God, and knoweth God.
God wants people to
be abundantly rich ask any preacher its in the bible about opening
the flood gates of heaven <EOM>
God wants people to be
abundantly rich ask any preacher its in the bible about opening the
flood gates of heaven <End Of Message>
Did
you think and grow rich?
got a bunch of stuff that turns into
junk in a couple of years
or what are you thinking about
knowledge, Love, Happiness, Peace?
KJV 1 Timothy 6:
9 But they that will be rich fall into temptation and a snare, and into many foolish and hurtful lusts, which drown men in destruction and perdition.
10 For the love of money is the root of all evil: which while some coveted after, they have erred from the faith, and pierced themselves through with many sorrows.
17 Charge them that are rich in this world, that they be not highminded, nor trust in uncertain riches, but in the living God, who giveth us richly all things to enjoy;
18 That they do good, that they be rich in good works, ready to distribute, willing to communicate;
19 Laying up in store for themselves a good foundation against the time to come, that they may lay hold on eternal life.
KJV 1 John 4:7
Beloved, let us love one another: for love is of God; and every one
that loveth is born of God, and knoweth God.
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Under the gliss and glam of casino’s and hotels in Las Vegas lies a dark and sad place; a 200 miles long flood tunnel that is occupied by homeless, drug addicts and criminals. About 1000 of them are living there, can you imagine? A lot of them have made rooms in the tunnel with furniture and their belongings to make it more homely.
They have no choice but to live with the risks from disease, creepy insects and rats, and the dirty water around them, not the mention the lack of daylight. Many of them live by begging in the streets and raiding bins and ships, but some of them still have decent jobs at the hotels. What a contrast to the things that are happening above the surface. Speaking of Las Vegas here is a Lego replica of it.
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Too Much Internet Porn: The SADD
Effect
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Better Man in brief ...
SADD
refers to Sexual Attention Deficit Disorder.
Men used to the
instant gratification of internet porn can struggle to maintain an
erection.
Suffer from SADD? Take a masturbation break.
"Easy
access to internet porn and the sheer variety of novelty it contains
have affected average guys who wouldn t normally have a problem."
As a sex therapist and founder of Good in Bed, I’ve seen a
sharp increase in men who suffer from a new syndrome I’ve dubbed
“Sexual Attention Deficit Disorder,” or SADD. And the source of
this problem is just a click away -- too much internet porn.
Just
as people with ADD are easily distracted, guys with SADD have become
so accustomed to the high levels of visual novelty and stimulation
that comes from internet porn that they’re unable to focus on real
sex with a real woman. As a result, guys with SADD often find it
difficult to maintain an erection during intercourse, or they
experience delayed ejaculation and can only climax with manual or
oral stimulation.
Bored in bed?
Men with SADD tend to find
themselves getting bored or impatient during sex. They may be
physiologically aroused and erect, but they’re not at peak mental
arousal. Guys with SADD may also simply lack the mojo for real sex
because they’re depleted from masturbation. They’re not running
on a full tank, physically or mentally.
Believe it or not, I
first became aware of SADD via the complaints of women who wondered
why their guys couldn’t ejaculate (and were often faking it) or who
noticed that their partners seemed disconnected or uninterested
during sex. When I dug a little deeper, or talked to the guys
themselves, I realized that these men were masturbating more than
usual due to their easy access to internet porn. Sometimes, they were
masturbating about the same as always, but hadn’t realized that
their natural refractory period -- the recovery time between
erections -- was increasing as they aged.
Don’t get me
wrong, I’m a big fan of masturbation. It helps a guy blow off some
steam and is like a 30-second spa day. But easy access to internet
porn and the sheer variety of novelty it contains have affected
average guys who wouldn’t normally have a problem. Because of this,
these men have rewired their brains to crave the instant
gratification of a porn-enabled orgasm. This means that they’re
developing what’s clinically referred to as an idiosyncratic
masturbatory style: They’ve accustomed themselves to an intense
type of physical stimulation that’s not approximated during real
sex. Their overall levels of sexual desire for their partners are
down, and they need to fantasize during real sex in order to maintain
a full erection.
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:: 40 tips for a better Life
1. Take a
10-30 minute walk every day. And while you walk, smile. It
is the
ultimate anti-depressant.
2. Sit in silence for at least 10
minutes each day. Buy a lock if you have to.
3. Buy a DVR and
tape your late night shows and get more sleep.
4. When you
wake up in the morning complete the following statement,
'My
purpose is to __________ today.'
5. Live with the 3 E's --
Energy, Enthusiasm, and Empathy.
6. Play more games and read
more books than you did in 2007.
7. Make time to practice
meditation and prayer. They provide us with
daily fuel for our
busy lives.
8. Spend time with people over the age of 70 and
under the age of 6.
9. Dream more while you are awake.
10.
Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food
that
is manufactured in plants.
11. Drink green tea and plenty of
water.. Eat blueberries, wild
Alaskan salmon, broccoli, almonds &
walnuts.
12. Try to make at least three people smile each
day.
13. Clear clutter from your house, your car, your desk
and let new and
flowing energy into your life.
14. Don't
waste your precious energy on gossip, energy vampires,
issues of
the past, negative thoughts or things you cannot control.
Instead
invest your energy in the positive present moment.
15. Realize
that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems
are
simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like
algebra
class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
16. Eat
breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a
college
kid with a maxed out charge card.
17. Smile and laugh more. It
will keep the energy vampires away.
18. Life isn't fair, but
it's still good.
19. Life is too short to waste time hating
anyone.
20. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else
does.
21. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to
disagree.
22. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the
present.
23. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no
idea what their
journey is all about.
24. No one is in
charge of your happiness except you.
25. Frame every so-called
disaster with these words: 'In five years,
will this matter?'
26.
Forgive everyone for everything.
27. What other people think
of you is none of your business.
28. GOD heals
everything.
29. However good or bad a situation is, it will
change.
30. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick.
Your friends
will. Stay in touch.
31. Get rid of anything
that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
32. Envy is a waste of
time. You already have all you need.
33. The best is yet to
come.
34. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show
up.
35. Do the right thing!
36. Call your family often.
(Or email them to death!!!) Hey I'm thinking of ya!
37. Each
night before you go to bed complete the following statements:
I am
thankful for ________. Today I accomplished _____.
38.
Remember that you are too blessed to be stressed.
39. Enjoy
the ride. Remember this is not Disney World and you
certainly
don't want a fast pass. You only have one ride through life
so
make the most of it and enjoy the ride.
40. Please forward
this to everyone you care about.
May your troubles be less,
May your blessings be more, May nothing but
happiness come through
your door!
Thanks Brains. Good stuff.
Different Types of Kisses – Various Kinds of
Kisses
12/18/09
Different Types of Kisses – Various Kinds of
Kisses
04:36:53 am, by loveguru, 1532 words
Categories: Sex &
Health
“A kiss is a pleasant reminder that two heads are
better than one”! Now, who wouldn’t agree with me on this
statement? A gentle kiss from your lover or spouse can lift your
spirits and make you feel wonderfully happy even when you are
depressed. A relationship is all about trying out new things to keep
away boredom and monotony from setting in. a fun way to do that is by
trying out different types of kisses. It can take your relationship
to a whole new level and both will be glad that you tried it, since
it will bond you all the more closer.
As we all know, there
are many types of kiss. Here are some of them, Check out what they
mean:
Angel Kiss
A very sweet and comforting kiss, the
angel kiss is one in which you lightly kiss your partner right on the
eye lids or just next to the eyes.
Cheek Kiss
This is the
most preferred kind of kiss for a first date. It gives the friendly
signal of “I really like you” to the other person. Place your
hands on your partner’s shoulder, lean forward and plant a soft
kiss on the cheek.
Chew Kiss
While kissing tell your
partner to place their tongue in your mouth. Very VERY GENTLY chew on
their back of the tongue. Do not suck. This creates a sensation that
can be very exciting.
Copy Cat Kiss
Just imitate the way
your partner kisses. Copy every act of their kiss.
Cordial
Kissing (Hot/Cold Kiss, Trickle Kiss)
Sip a very small amount of
your favourite drink, either hot or cold and when you just begin to
kiss, pour the drink into your partner's mouth. It will leave behind
a sensational feeling. Some love this type of kiss and some cringe
with the thought of it.
Butterfly Kiss
A very cute gesture,
you don’t really kiss in this one. Bring your faces close to each
other and flutter your eyelids together. Of course, this ignites
pleasure and you go ahead to have a wonderful kiss!
Earlobe
Kiss
As the name suggests, you need to kiss and very gently suck
on the earlobe of your partner. Be careful not to nip or bite since
ear lobes are very soft. Make soft groaning noises but don’t squeal
since you are kissing on the ears!
Eskimo Kiss
This is
definitely one of the cutest ways to begin a kiss. Bring your faces
together and very lightly rub your noses together. It is a
wonderfully loving gesture that your partner will adore.
Flavour
Kiss
Just before you decide to kiss your partner pop in a long
lasting flavoured chewing gum into your mouth. Pass this gum along
each other's mouth and see how long the flavour last.
Freeze
Kiss
This is a fun kiss to experiment with. Take a small piece of
ice and put it in your mouth. Don’t swallow! Gently hold your
partner and kiss softly on the lips. While kissing, open your mouth
and make your partner open his/her mouth lightly. Pass the ice with
your tongue for an exciting sensation.
French Kiss
Also
known as the “Soul Kiss”, the French kiss is a passionate form of
kissing. Start with a soft kiss on the lips and very slowly start
exploring your partner’s mouth with your tongue.
Forehead
Kiss
The protective kiss. The motherly kiss or just friends kiss.
This kiss is the most comforting kiss for anyone. Just brush your
lips against their forehead.
Foot Kiss
For feet kiss you
need to gently suck the toes and then kiss the foot. While kissing
the foot gently massage the base of the foot. It might tickle, relax
and enjoy it.
Hand Kiss
This one is ideally done by the
dude. Take your girlfriend’s hand in your hand and lightly kiss the
top of her hand. In the days of yore, the man used to bow or go down
on one knee and then perform this kiss.
Hickey Kiss
While
kissing your partner gently suck them near the neck. Please do not be
too hard or bite. It will hurt them. Your kiss will leave behind a
mark.
Hot n Cold Kiss
A very exciting kiss, in this, you
need to put a cold drink in your mouth and tell your partner to have
a warm drink. Have the sensation in your mouths and kiss
passionately. You will be left with a wonderful sensation after you
are done kissing.
Lasts Longer Kiss
Sit very close to each
other. Your lips should almost be touching your partner's lips and
arms can be where you please to keep them. Sit in this way, and see
who can control without kissing the other. It is great, because even
if you lose on purpose, you still WIN!
Marathon Kissing
This
kiss is just to find out how long you and your partner can kiss at a
stretch. Try kissing for 5-10 minutes without stopping. The longer
the better right!!!
Motion Kiss
Begin kissing slowly, and
then start to increase the speed. Once the kiss is sped up you should
also slow it down. Too much of everything is too bad.
Neck
Kiss
This is a very sensual kiss. You need to come up from behind
your partner, embrace gently and kiss the back of the neck. Slowly
proceed to the side while kissing and withdraw gently.
Nip
Kiss
It creates a very erotic sensation. While kissing your
partner gently nibble on their lips. Be careful not to bite or hurt
them. If done correctly and passionately it ignites amazing
sensations.
Shoulder Kiss
Known to be a sensual and loving
kiss, the shoulder kiss involves coming from behind your partner and
kissing on top of the shoulder a few times.
Sigh Kiss
While
kissing gently lick your partner's lips with the tip of your tongue.
Then blow or sigh into their lips. It will cause a tingling effect
and will also intensify the kiss for sure.
Sip Kiss
This is
a fun kiss to try with your partner. Take a sip of your favorite
drink and leave a bit of it on your lips. Now kiss your partner and
create an enjoyable and sensual feeling.
Stomach Kiss
Gently
kiss and nibble on your partners stomach, sometimes it leads to other
things.
Suck Kissing
A seductive kiss. Just like French
Kissing, while your partner's lips are slightly parted, suck on their
upper or lower lip, just for a second or two. You could continue as
long as you want or you could try out a variety of kisses.
Surprise
Kiss
Surprise your partner when they are asleep, get close and
gently kiss them on their lips, intensify the kiss till your partner
gets up.
Tickle Kiss
Begin with a French kiss and once your
tongue is in your partner's mouth, stroke your tongue across the roof
their mouth. Your partner could do the same to you. This will bring
unbearable chills. The roof of your mouth is one of the most ticklish
parts of the body. This kiss is different every time you do
it.
Tongue Kiss
While French kissing your partner; gently
suck their tongue while it's in your mouth. This produces a
wonderful, erotic feeling for both!
Tiger Kiss
Do it like a
playful tiger! They sneak upon their prey and attack without any
noise. Sneak up behind your partner and grab him/her out of the blue.
While he/she still tries to get over the pleasant shock, start
nibbling and lightly kissing their neck and don’t forget to growl
like a cub!
Upside-Down Kiss
Seen Spiderman? He lowers
himself head-first while dangling from his web and passionately
kisses MJ. Since you cannot dangle from anywhere, you kiss your
partner when he/she is lying down or seated. Come from behind and
have them tilt their head backwards. Gently kiss the lower lip and
feel your partner breathing softly on your neck.
Underwater
Kiss
Ever tried kissing underwater. It is a unique and a lovely
feeling. Find your partner underwater and kiss them. If you gasp for
breath you'll be back at the top. If you want to continue the kiss it
is left entirely up to you and your partner.
Vacuum Kiss
A
playful kiss. When kissing slightly suck as though you were sucking
air from your partner's mouth.
Kissing is an art and a skill.
One that everyone should master because it’s a beautiful piece of
art that two people create together. Kisses should be meaningful yet,
lustful. Kissing is where it begins and where it ends, so be a good
kisser. Practice makes perfect, ask an old partner to help you (even
practice with them) if they will let you (it should be fun). Look in
the mirror, study your lips, practice on a pillow, but whatever you
do, be a good kisser; it could make or break your relationship.
Create desire through kissing, know your mouth, your lips and know
how to use them when kissing another.
Subject: Ccn
This is
unbelievable but it is so very true & a couple of people have
been caught so be on the watch-out ...For your understanding and
educating your friends and loved one Maybe you've been caught on the
wrong side of the City Council by-laws or haven't yet.
If
you're one of those ones who haven't, let me share my experience at
the hands of city council askaris.
I was unsuspectingly buying
myself a stick of gum, when I was nabbed by the askaris. It took me a
few minutes to wrap my head around what was happening. I was quickly
informed that it was a crime to purchase goods from a hawker, and
after lying through my teeth in a bid to convince them to let me go,
I was berated for being ignorant and immediately marched to a city
council vehicle that was parked nearby.
The last time I
checked the hawker who had sold me gum was right behind me,
accompanied by another askari but to my surprise, I was the only one
who got into the pick up! I guess City Council is synonymous to Kitu
Kidogo because everyone who gave them some cash was let go in the
course of our journey around the town center, as we looked for other
'unfortunate' Kenyans.
After the final lap, we were taken to
the City council Offices at city hall, where the magistrate briskly
gave out sentences for such misdemeanors; I was shocked to be fined
Sh2,000 for buying a stick of gum, while hawkers were getting away
with a day's work at the council offices, or a bribe of 500 bob.
So
there it is. bribery in this case is cheaper than justice. Truth is
with the new rules (cash cows) that have been put in place, there are
bound to be many victims of ignorance. Needless to say, I was late
for work but learned a very valuable lesson, CCN is always
watching!
Below is a list of the 10 petty offences that I
witnessed being charged in the Nairobi City Court as I waited for my
turn.
Beware: The City's deadliest sins
1.
Buying from hawkers
2. Sitting on a flower pot in the CBD
3.
Spitting on any footpath or blowing the nose aimlessly other than
into a suitable cloth or tissue
4. Taking or alighting from a
matatu from a non-designated area
5. Crossing the road while
you are on the phone
6. Making any kind of noise on the
streets
7. Playing any game, riding or driving or propelling
on a foot path
8. Graffiti
9. Owner of a burning
building should pay for fire fighting services whether the owner
requested for attendance or not.
10. Loitering, importuning or
attempting to procure a female/male for prostitution purposes.
11.
Having you car with a 'FOR SALE' sign and haven't paid the council is
also punishable.
The City's survival tips
1.
The moment you get into the council courts and charged, please plead
guilty because only then, will you be allowed to pay a fine of a
maximum of Sh2000. If you deny the charges you may be arrested for
two days with no fine.
2. Do not argue with the council
askaris if you know that you are guilty as charged. You might just
double your fine.
3. Bribes are unacceptable after/immediately
the lorry has entered the city council's compound.
4. M-PESA
is not allowed to pay for a crime.
5. Someone else MUST pay
your fine. You cannot pay the fine yourself after you have been
charged.
Ø The other day I saw Kanjo arresting a man for
pulling his suit case on its wheels, they want you to carry it n not
pull it - yet to find out the fine.
Below is a summary
of the newly introduced bylaw which we are all expected to adhere
to:-
§ Pedestrians crossing the roads in Nairobi when
traffic light is red - fine is Kshs. 10,000/=
§ Motorist
moving on when the traffic light is red - fine Kshs 10,000/=
§
Pedestrians crossing the road while talking on their mobile phones -
fine is Kshs. 500/=
§ Boarding at non designated PSV/matatu,
bus stop - Fine 10,000/=
§ Unfastened seat belt - Fine
500/=
§ Use of mobile phone when driving Kshs10,000/=
§
Driving with worn out tyres - Fine Kshs 10,000/=
§ Double
parking -Fine Kshs 20,000/=
Pass it on to your friends.
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New Nairobi City Council traffic rules/offenses and fines 2 Years, 5 Months
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** This thread discusses the content article: New Nairobi City Council traffic
rules/offenses and fines **
The following are new Nairobi City Council traffic offences (rules) and
consequent fines that you should be aware of:
1. Pedestrians crossing the roads in Nairobi when traffic light is red –
fine is Kshs. 10,000/=
2. Motorist moving on when the traffic light is red – fine Kshs 10,000/=
3. Pedestrians crossing the road while talking on their mobile phones –
fine is Kshs. 500/=
4. Boarding/Alighting at non designated matatu stops Fine 10,000/=
5. Unfastened seat belt - Fine 500/=
6. Worn out tyres -- Fine Kshs 10,000/=
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WORDS
M. WORDS by Ted Nicholas Copyright 2001
The words with which you communicate determine the quality of your life.
This is true whether communicating with others or with yourself. Especially with yourself
Words have the power to induce someone to laugh, to cry, to be kind, to be loving, to be cooperative, or to buy or be unkind, angry, irrational.
When words are spoken, the added factors of voice timbre, emphasis, emotion….
I define negative manipulation in this context, the use of words that causes others to act for the benefit of the communicator.
Positive manipulation is when certain words tend to cause responses that are of mutual benefit to the speaker or writer and the person with whom you communicate.
People all over the world really want to accommodate their fellow humans. But they must be approached properly.
Little people mean a lot.
Who do you think will get special consideration when it is requested? The open and kind caring person? Or the person who treats the “little” people as though they were invisible?
Practice saying the secret words with
v A smile (you can even hear a smile on the telephone);
v A warm, rich tone to your voice;
v Enthusiasm in what you request;
v Good eye contact;
v A firm handshake;
v Sincerity – you can’t fake friendliness;
v A purposeful posture – standing tall; and
v A manner that communicates an expectation that you deserve and expect to get what you request.
The loudness of the inner words along with the richness of tone used when we say the combine to produce our inner emotional state. Interestingly our communication to others reflects this inner state. It can’t be hidden , at least not for long.
Humour
WHAT THEY TELL YOU IN CAPS what it means in small
JOIN OUR FAST-PACED COMPANY": We have no time to train you.
"CASUAL WORK ATMOSPHERE": We don't pay enough to expect that you'll dress up; well, a couple of the real daring guys wear earrings.
"MUST BE DEADLINE ORIENTED": You'll be six months behind schedule on your first day.
"SOME OVERTIME REQUIRED": Some time each night and some time each weekend.
"DUTIES WILL VARY": Anyone in the office can boss you around.
"MUST HAVE AN EYE FOR DETAIL": We have no quality control.
Walls of separation have been built up between the whites and the blacks. These walls of prejudice will tumble down of themselves as did the walls of Jericho, when Christians obey the Word of God, which enjoins on them supreme love to their Maker and impartial love to their neighbors. The religion of the Bible recognizes no caste or color. It ignores rank, wealth, worldly honor. God estimates men as men. With Him, character decides their worth. And we are to recognize the Spirit of Christ in whomsoever He is revealed.
– The Review and Herald, December 17, 1895, Testimonies for the Church Vol 9 p. 223.
Successful daters are those who don't need to date anymore. They found their soul mate, married and are now in a relationship which is growing stronger, more supportive and loving over time. When you are dating, don't ask yourself: can this person give me what I need, ask instead (or in addition): can I see myself wanting to give to this person for the rest of my life? Do I see in this person such a vista of potential that I want to invest in him or her?
Step back, observe and consider: Does this person have the character, values and goals that will foster a desire in me to help him (or her)?
A focus on giving (healthy giving without an agenda, neediness or negativity) fosters feelings of connection and love. This binds people together in such a way that even challenges will bring them closer together.
So can you find this out in the first 7 minutes? Unlikely. But give this question a try - the next time you sit physically or electronically across from a date, ask yourself: is there any possibility I would enjoy giving to this person? And if the answer is yes - go on another date. Who knows, this could be the start of an eternal connection.
7 Drugs You Can Legally Grow in Your Home more...
http://2leep.com/news/41662/109/read/
I visited this link and only got a picture not the list of 7
I think it is blocked on this part of the world.
Wanted you to visit it, save it as .pdf or .doc then email it zipped.
Make Happiness
Make a wish, Make it grand,
Make it big as you can stand.
Make it loud, Make it strong,
Make it up as you go along.
Make a difference, Make your mark,
Make your own creative spark.
Make a statement, Make it true,
Make it from the heart of you.
Make a scene, Make a face,
Make yourself some breathing-space.
Make a way, Make more time,
to laugh and play.
Make peace, Make amends,
Make a promise make new friends.
Make it work, Make it go,
Make it "yes" instead of "no".
Make some music, Make some noise,
Make a list of simple joys.
Make some cookies, Make some tea,
Make a date with destiny.
Make a try, Make a guess,
Make a choice for happiness.
Make your life anything and
everything you want it to be!
Here are some links to photos on net.
Women Drivers more...
http://2leep.com/news/120688/109/read/
Funny Cartoons – 43 Pictures
http://2leep.com/news/168202/109/more/
Wise Picture URL (may lead to the source of wisdom to some)
http://www.spiritlessons.com/Documents/Posters/FoolAndWiseMan.pdf
Are you looking for someone to love you unconditionally, well I want you to know that person is not me. But, If you are, I can help you.
Cyberwall
A cyberwall is similar in scope to a firewall, but instead of
offering perimeter defense filtering between two or more
networks, cyberwalls are typically installed on desktop and
server systems on the inside network at a corporate site.
Cyberwalls provide a defensive barrier to attacks on
mission critical systems on internal networks and help
“harden” the operating system environment from a network
attack. Some cyberwalls also include intrusion detection
software to allow the system to detect an attack of specific
types in progress and effect some levels of defense against
them. While a firewall is a description of a system (one or more pieces
of hardware) that acts as a barrier between two or more
network segments. A firewall can be used to provide a
barrier between an internal network and the Internet. A
firewall can be considered the technical implementation of a
security policy. The firewall upholds the security policy of a
network when connecting that network to a second network
which has a less stringent security policy.
Seven_virtues
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Seven_virtues
Food Sex
http://www.funpages.com/foodsex/
Kiss
A kiss is the touching of one person's lips to another place, which is used as an expression of affection, respect, greeting, farewell, good luck, romantic affection or sexual desire. The word comes from Old English cyssan "to kiss", in turn from coss "a kiss".
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The physiology of kissing
Kissing is a complex behavior that requires significant muscular coordination; a total of thirty-four facial muscles and 112 postural muscles are used during a kiss.[6][7] The most important muscle involved is the orbicularis oris muscle, which is used to pucker the lips and informally known as the kissing muscle.[citation needed] In the case of the French kiss, the tongue is also an important part. Lips have many nerve endings so they are sensitive to touch and bite.[8]
Health benefits
Affection in general has stress-reducing affects. Kissing in particular has been studied in a controlled experiment: increasing the frequency of kissing in marital and cohabiting relationships was found to result in a reduction of perceived stress, an increase in relationship satisfaction, and a lowering of cholesterol levels.[10]
Kissing in religion This section does not cite any references or sources.
This woodcut of the practice of kissing the Pope's toe is from Passionary of the Christ and Antichrist by Cranach.
Muslims may kiss the Black Stone during Hajj (pilgrimage to Mecca).
In Ancient Rome and some modern Pagan beliefs, worshipers when passing the statue or image of a god or goddess will kiss their hand and wave it towards the deity (adoration).
In the gospels of Matthew and Mark (Luke and John omit this) Judas betrayed Jesus with a kiss—an instance of a kiss intertwined with betrayal. This is the basis of the term 'the kiss of Judas'
The holy kiss or kiss of peace is a traditional part of most Christian liturgies, though usually replaced with an embrace or handshake today in Western cultures
The Pope will kiss the ground on arrival to a new country.
Visitors to the Pope traditionally kiss his foot. (The ring of a cardinal or bishop, hand of a priest.)
Jews will kiss the Western wall of the Holy Temple in Jerusalem, and other religious articles during prayer such as the Torah, usually by touching their hand, Tallis, or Siddur (prayerbook) to the Torah and then kissing it. Jewish law prohibits kissing members of the opposite sex, except for certain close relatives. See Negiah.
Eastern Orthodox and Eastern Catholic Christians often kiss the icons around the church as entering, they will also kiss the cross and / or the priests hand in certain other customs in the Church, such as confession or receiving a blessing.
Catholics will kiss rosary beads as a part of prayer, or kiss their hand after making the sign of the cross. It is also common to kiss the wounds on a crucifix, or any other image of Christ's Passion.
Hindus sometimes kiss the ground of a temple.
Local lore in Ireland suggests that kissing the Blarney Stone leads to good luck.
Different Types of Kisses – Various Kinds of Kisses
12/18/09
Different Types of Kisses – Various Kinds of Kisses
04:36:53 am, by loveguru, 1532 words
Categories: Sex & Health
“A kiss is a pleasant reminder that two heads are better than one”! Now, who wouldn’t agree with me on this statement? A gentle kiss from your lover or spouse can lift your spirits and make you feel wonderfully happy even when you are depressed. A relationship is all about trying out new things to keep away boredom and monotony from setting in. a fun way to do that is by trying out different types of kisses. It can take your relationship to a whole new level and both will be glad that you tried it, since it will bond you all the more closer.
As we all know, there are many types of kiss. Here are some of them, Check out what they mean:
Angel Kiss
A very sweet and comforting kiss, the angel kiss is one in which you lightly kiss your partner right on the eye lids or just next to the eyes.
Cheek Kiss
This is the most preferred kind of kiss for a first date. It gives the friendly signal of “I really like you” to the other person. Place your hands on your partner’s shoulder, lean forward and plant a soft kiss on the cheek.
Chew Kiss
While kissing tell your partner to place their tongue in your mouth. Very VERY GENTLY chew on their back of the tongue. Do not suck. This creates a sensation that can be very exciting.
Copy Cat Kiss
Just imitate the way your partner kisses. Copy every act of their kiss.
Cordial Kissing (Hot/Cold Kiss, Trickle Kiss)
Sip a very small amount of your favourite drink, either hot or cold and when you just begin to kiss, pour the drink into your partner's mouth. It will leave behind a sensational feeling. Some love this type of kiss and some cringe with the thought of it.
Butterfly Kiss
A very cute gesture, you don’t really kiss in this one. Bring your faces close to each other and flutter your eyelids together. Of course, this ignites pleasure and you go ahead to have a wonderful kiss!
Earlobe Kiss
As the name suggests, you need to kiss and very gently suck on the earlobe of your partner. Be careful not to nip or bite since ear lobes are very soft. Make soft groaning noises but don’t squeal since you are kissing on the ears!
Eskimo Kiss
This is definitely one of the cutest ways to begin a kiss. Bring your faces together and very lightly rub your noses together. It is a wonderfully loving gesture that your partner will adore.
Flavour Kiss
Just before you decide to kiss your partner pop in a long lasting flavoured chewing gum into your mouth. Pass this gum along each other's mouth and see how long the flavour last.
Freeze Kiss
This is a fun kiss to experiment with. Take a small piece of ice and put it in your mouth. Don’t swallow! Gently hold your partner and kiss softly on the lips. While kissing, open your mouth and make your partner open his/her mouth lightly. Pass the ice with your tongue for an exciting sensation.
French Kiss
Also known as the “Soul Kiss”, the French kiss is a passionate form of kissing. Start with a soft kiss on the lips and very slowly start exploring your partner’s mouth with your tongue.
Forehead Kiss
The protective kiss. The motherly kiss or just friends kiss. This kiss is the most comforting kiss for anyone. Just brush your lips against their forehead.
Foot Kiss
For feet kiss you need to gently suck the toes and then kiss the foot. While kissing the foot gently massage the base of the foot. It might tickle, relax and enjoy it.
Hand Kiss
This one is ideally done by the dude. Take your girlfriend’s hand in your hand and lightly kiss the top of her hand. In the days of yore, the man used to bow or go down on one knee and then perform this kiss.
Hickey Kiss
While kissing your partner gently suck them near the neck. Please do not be too hard or bite. It will hurt them. Your kiss will leave behind a mark.
Hot n Cold Kiss
A very exciting kiss, in this, you need to put a cold drink in your mouth and tell your partner to have a warm drink. Have the sensation in your mouths and kiss passionately. You will be left with a wonderful sensation after you are done kissing.
Lasts Longer Kiss
Sit very close to each other. Your lips should almost be touching your partner's lips and arms can be where you please to keep them. Sit in this way, and see who can control without kissing the other. It is great, because even if you lose on purpose, you still WIN!
Marathon Kissing
This kiss is just to find out how long you and your partner can kiss at a stretch. Try kissing for 5-10 minutes without stopping. The longer the better right!!!
Motion Kiss
Begin kissing slowly, and then start to increase the speed. Once the kiss is sped up you should also slow it down. Too much of everything is too bad.
Neck Kiss
This is a very sensual kiss. You need to come up from behind your partner, embrace gently and kiss the back of the neck. Slowly proceed to the side while kissing and withdraw gently.
Nip Kiss
It creates a very erotic sensation. While kissing your partner gently nibble on their lips. Be careful not to bite or hurt them. If done correctly and passionately it ignites amazing sensations.
Shoulder Kiss
Known to be a sensual and loving kiss, the shoulder kiss involves coming from behind your partner and kissing on top of the shoulder a few times.
Sigh Kiss
While kissing gently lick your partner's lips with the tip of your tongue. Then blow or sigh into their lips. It will cause a tingling effect and will also intensify the kiss for sure.
Sip Kiss
This is a fun kiss to try with your partner. Take a sip of your favorite drink and leave a bit of it on your lips. Now kiss your partner and create an enjoyable and sensual feeling.
Stomach Kiss
Gently kiss and nibble on your partners stomach, sometimes it leads to other things.
Suck Kissing
A seductive kiss. Just like French Kissing, while your partner's lips are slightly parted, suck on their upper or lower lip, just for a second or two. You could continue as long as you want or you could try out a variety of kisses.
Surprise Kiss
Surprise your partner when they are asleep, get close and gently kiss them on their lips, intensify the kiss till your partner gets up.
Tickle Kiss
Begin with a French kiss and once your tongue is in your partner's mouth, stroke your tongue across the roof their mouth. Your partner could do the same to you. This will bring unbearable chills. The roof of your mouth is one of the most ticklish parts of the body. This kiss is different every time you do it.
Tongue Kiss
While French kissing your partner; gently suck their tongue while it's in your mouth. This produces a wonderful, erotic feeling for both!
Tiger Kiss
Do it like a playful tiger! They sneak upon their prey and attack without any noise. Sneak up behind your partner and grab him/her out of the blue. While he/she still tries to get over the pleasant shock, start nibbling and lightly kissing their neck and don’t forget to growl like a cub!
Upside-Down Kiss
Seen Spiderman? He lowers himself head-first while dangling from his web and passionately kisses MJ. Since you cannot dangle from anywhere, you kiss your partner when he/she is lying down or seated. Come from behind and have them tilt their head backwards. Gently kiss the lower lip and feel your partner breathing softly on your neck.
Underwater Kiss
Ever tried kissing underwater. It is a unique and a lovely feeling. Find your partner underwater and kiss them. If you gasp for breath you'll be back at the top. If you want to continue the kiss it is left entirely up to you and your partner.
Vacuum Kiss
A playful kiss. When kissing slightly suck as though you were sucking air from your partner's mouth.
Kissing is an art and a skill. One that everyone should master because it’s a beautiful piece of art that two people create together. Kisses should be meaningful yet, lustful. Kissing is where it begins and where it ends, so be a good kisser. Practice makes perfect, ask an old partner to help you (even practice with them) if they will let you (it should be fun). Look in the mirror, study your lips, practice on a pillow, but whatever you do, be a good kisser; it could make or break your relationship. Create desire through kissing, know your mouth, your lips and know how to use them when kissing another.
Joke
Ol' Fred had been a faithful Christian and was in the hospital, near death. The family
called their pastor to stand with them. As the pastor stood next to the bed, Ol' Fred's
condition appeared to deteriorate and he motioned frantically for something to write on.
The pastor lovingly handed him a pen and a piece of paper, and Ol' Fred used his last
bit of energy to scribble a note, then he died. The pastor thought it best not to look at the
note at that
time, so he placed it in his jacket pocket.
At the funeral, as he was finishing the message, he realized that he was wearing the
same jacket that he was wearing when Ol' Fred died. He said, "You know, Ol' Fred
handed me a note just before he died. I haven't looked at it, but knowing Fred, I'm sure
there's a word of inspiration there for us all."
He opened the note, and read, " you're standing on my oxygen tube!"
Intelligence
Intelligence, as measured by IQ and other aptitude tests, is widely used in educational, business, and military settings due to its efficacy in predicting behavior. g is highly correlated with many important social outcomes - individuals with low IQs are more likely to be divorced, have a child out of marriage, be incarcerated, and need long term welfare support, while individuals with high IQs are associated with more years of education, higher status jobs and higher income.[24] Intelligence is significantly correlated with successful training and performance outcomes, and g is the single best predictor of successful job performance.[25]
Joke
Top 10 reasons why you should go to work naked
10. No one ever steals your chair.
9. Gives "bad hair day" a whole new meaning.
8. Diverts attention from the fact that you also came to work drunk.
7. People stop stealing your pens after they've seen where you keep them.
6. You want to see if it's like the dream.
5. To stop those creepy programmer guys from looking down your blouse.
4. "I'd love to chip in... but I left my wallet in my pants."
3. Inventive way to finally meet that 'special' person in Human Resources.
2. Can take advantage of your computer monitor radiation to work on your tan.
And the number one reason to go to work naked...
Your boss will never say, "I wanna see your ass in here by 8:00!" ever again.
P/S: The above info is a joke, so for some of you please do not do it, no one wants to see ...........
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The Overweight Epidemic
In the past, we have always associated poverty with being terribly thin, mostly due
to starvation. When I was young I wanted to grow up to be a “rich fat man.”
Today, the tables have turned; “poor” and “fat” have become synonymous, and
“rich fat man” has become an oxymoron! Centuries ago, the only corpulent people
were royalty and wealthy landowners. Today, the lower the income, the more we see
obesity, and the higher the income, the more we see men and women who are fit
and trim, defying their age.
Since 1980, we have more than doubled the percentage of overweight and obese
people in the United States. In 1980, 15 percent of the population was obese;
by the year 2000, that number had jumped to 27 percent—that’s 77 million clinically
obese people! Today, 61 percent of the U.S. population is overweight and
headed towards obesity—which has increased 10 percent to almost 30 percent of
the U.S. population. As a result, 18 million Americans have diabetes and another
41 million over age 40 have prediabetes. Most people with prediabetes develop
type 2 diabetes in 10 years. Sixty-five percent of people with diabetes die from
heart disease or stroke, and the medical costs alone to treat diabetes now exceeds
$100 billion a year.
Moreover, overweight and obesity are also symptoms of poor nutrition. Typically someone
who is obese is also vitamin-deficient and suffers from fatigue and arthritis or other ailments
that all stem from poor nutrition. Our food industry, which represents about one trillion
dollars annually, exacerbates the problem by catering to the “lowest common denominator”
of poor nutrition.
What about our health care? The truth is, what we call “health care” is not really the health
business but the sickness business. Our medical industry today has very little to do with health.
The $2 trillion we spend on medical care, which represents one-sixth of the U.S. economy, is
concerned almost exclusively with treating the symptoms of illness. It has very little to do with
preventing illnesses or with making people feel stronger or healthier.
This same shift in expectations is a strong contributing
factor in network marketing as well. In
the new economy, the sheer quantity of compensation
is no longer enough. People today also
demand a better quality of compensation. We
don’t simply want money, we want lifestyle.
Today’s workers understand that it doesn’t matter
how much money you earn if you never get to see
your spouse or children, or if you sacrifice your
health for your work.
This is a demand that didn’t exist in the past.
During the Industrial Age, the question “Are you
truly happy with your life?” would have been
greeted by most as self-indulgent nonsense.
“Happy?! What a question! I’m making money.”
Today we want more. Our economy and living
standards have grown to the point where we not
only expect to make a living, but also expect to
have the best possible experience living that life.
We don’t want to have to sacrifice family for work,
or vice versa.
Indeed, the founding documents of most religions demonstrate that God wants us to be well—Deuteronomy contains expansive portions on diet, and gluttony was one of the original seven deadly sins. Yet today, the crying secular need of learning to live a wellness lifestyle of diet and exercise is ignored by most religions and religious organizations.
Riches are not only measured in terms of money.
Understanding, knowledge, wisdom, love (things that are heavenly and come from God) etc are also viewed as unseen great riches. God is very fair asking for only 10% while He owns it all. The rest is given as offering. Life is not just about money. God wants people to be abundantly rich ask any preacher its in the bible about opening the flood gates of heaven
KJV 1 Timothy 6:
9 But they that will be rich fall into temptation and a snare, and into many foolish and hurtful lusts, which drown men in destruction and perdition.
10 For the love of money is the root of all evil: which while some coveted after, they have erred from the faith, and pierced themselves through with many sorrows.
17 Charge them that are rich in this world, that they be not highminded, nor trust in uncertain riches, but in the living God, who giveth us richly all things to enjoy;
18 That they do good, that they be rich in good works, ready to distribute, willing to communicate;
19 Laying up in store for themselves a good foundation against the time to come, that they may lay hold on eternal life.
KJV 1 John 4:7 Beloved, let us love one another: for love is of God; and every one that loveth is born of God, and knoweth God.
God wants people to be abundantly rich ask any preacher its in the bible about opening the flood gates of heaven <EOM>
God wants people to be abundantly rich ask any preacher its in the bible about opening the flood gates of heaven <End Of Message>
Did you think and grow rich?
got a bunch of stuff that turns into junk in a couple of years
or what are you thinking about knowledge, Love, Happiness, Peace?
KJV 1 Timothy 6:
9 But they that will be rich fall into temptation and a snare, and into many foolish and hurtful lusts, which drown men in destruction and perdition.
10 For the love of money is the root of all evil: which while some coveted after, they have erred from the faith, and pierced themselves through with many sorrows.
17 Charge them that are rich in this world, that they be not highminded, nor trust in uncertain riches, but in the living God, who giveth us richly all things to enjoy;
18 That they do good, that they be rich in good works, ready to distribute, willing to communicate;
19 Laying up in store for themselves a good foundation against the time to come, that they may lay hold on eternal life.
KJV 1 John 4:7 Beloved, let us love one another: for love is of God; and every one that loveth is born of God, and knoweth God.
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Under the gliss and glam of casino’s and hotels in Las Vegas lies a dark and sad place; a 200 miles long flood tunnel that is occupied by homeless, drug addicts and criminals. About 1000 of them are living there, can you imagine? A lot of them have made rooms in the tunnel with furniture and their belongings to make it more homely.
They have no choice but to live with the risks from disease, creepy insects and rats, and the dirty water around them, not the mention the lack of daylight. Many of them live by begging in the streets and raiding bins and ships, but some of them still have decent jobs at the hotels. What a contrast to the things that are happening above the surface. Speaking of Las Vegas here is a Lego replica of it.
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Too Much Internet Porn: The SADD Effect
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Better Man in brief ...
SADD refers to Sexual Attention Deficit Disorder.
Men used to the instant gratification of internet porn can struggle to maintain an erection.
Suffer from SADD? Take a masturbation break.
"Easy access to internet porn and the sheer variety of novelty it contains have affected average guys who wouldn t normally have a problem."
As a sex therapist and founder of Good in Bed, I’ve seen a sharp increase in men who suffer from a new syndrome I’ve dubbed “Sexual Attention Deficit Disorder,” or SADD. And the source of this problem is just a click away -- too much internet porn.
Just as people with ADD are easily distracted, guys with SADD have become so accustomed to the high levels of visual novelty and stimulation that comes from internet porn that they’re unable to focus on real sex with a real woman. As a result, guys with SADD often find it difficult to maintain an erection during intercourse, or they experience delayed ejaculation and can only climax with manual or oral stimulation.
Bored in bed?
Men with SADD tend to find themselves getting bored or impatient during sex. They may be physiologically aroused and erect, but they’re not at peak mental arousal. Guys with SADD may also simply lack the mojo for real sex because they’re depleted from masturbation. They’re not running on a full tank, physically or mentally.
Believe it or not, I first became aware of SADD via the complaints of women who wondered why their guys couldn’t ejaculate (and were often faking it) or who noticed that their partners seemed disconnected or uninterested during sex. When I dug a little deeper, or talked to the guys themselves, I realized that these men were masturbating more than usual due to their easy access to internet porn. Sometimes, they were masturbating about the same as always, but hadn’t realized that their natural refractory period -- the recovery time between erections -- was increasing as they aged.
Don’t get me wrong, I’m a big fan of masturbation. It helps a guy blow off some steam and is like a 30-second spa day. But easy access to internet porn and the sheer variety of novelty it contains have affected average guys who wouldn’t normally have a problem. Because of this, these men have rewired their brains to crave the instant gratification of a porn-enabled orgasm. This means that they’re developing what’s clinically referred to as an idiosyncratic masturbatory style: They’ve accustomed themselves to an intense type of physical stimulation that’s not approximated during real sex. Their overall levels of sexual desire for their partners are down, and they need to fantasize during real sex in order to maintain a full erection.
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:: 40 tips for a better Life
1. Take a 10-30 minute walk every day. And while you walk, smile. It
is the ultimate anti-depressant.
2. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day. Buy a lock if you have to.
3. Buy a DVR and tape your late night shows and get more sleep.
4. When you wake up in the morning complete the following statement,
'My purpose is to __________ today.'
5. Live with the 3 E's -- Energy, Enthusiasm, and Empathy.
6. Play more games and read more books than you did in 2007.
7. Make time to practice meditation and prayer. They provide us with
daily fuel for our busy lives.
8. Spend time with people over the age of 70 and under the age of 6.
9. Dream more while you are awake.
10. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food
that is manufactured in plants.
11. Drink green tea and plenty of water.. Eat blueberries, wild
Alaskan salmon, broccoli, almonds & walnuts.
12. Try to make at least three people smile each day.
13. Clear clutter from your house, your car, your desk and let new and
flowing energy into your life.
14. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip, energy vampires,
issues of the past, negative thoughts or things you cannot control.
Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.
15. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems
are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like
algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
16. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a
college kid with a maxed out charge card.
17. Smile and laugh more. It will keep the energy vampires away.
18. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.
19. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.
20. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
21. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
22. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present.
23. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their
journey is all about.
24. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
25. Frame every so-called disaster with these words: 'In five years,
will this matter?'
26. Forgive everyone for everything.
27. What other people think of you is none of your business.
28. GOD heals everything.
29. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
30. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends
will. Stay in touch.
31. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
32. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
33. The best is yet to come.
34. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
35. Do the right thing!
36. Call your family often. (Or email them to death!!!) Hey I'm thinking of ya!
37. Each night before you go to bed complete the following statements:
I am thankful for ________. Today I accomplished _____.
38. Remember that you are too blessed to be stressed.
39. Enjoy the ride. Remember this is not Disney World and you
certainly don't want a fast pass. You only have one ride through life
so make the most of it and enjoy the ride.
40. Please forward this to everyone you care about.
May your troubles be less, May your blessings be more, May nothing but
happiness come through your door!
Thanks Brains. Good stuff.
Different Types of Kisses – Various Kinds of Kisses
12/18/09
Different Types of Kisses – Various Kinds of Kisses
04:36:53 am, by loveguru, 1532 words
Categories: Sex & Health
“A kiss is a pleasant reminder that two heads are better than one”! Now, who wouldn’t agree with me on this statement? A gentle kiss from your lover or spouse can lift your spirits and make you feel wonderfully happy even when you are depressed. A relationship is all about trying out new things to keep away boredom and monotony from setting in. a fun way to do that is by trying out different types of kisses. It can take your relationship to a whole new level and both will be glad that you tried it, since it will bond you all the more closer.
As we all know, there are many types of kiss. Here are some of them, Check out what they mean:
Angel Kiss
A very sweet and comforting kiss, the angel kiss is one in which you lightly kiss your partner right on the eye lids or just next to the eyes.
Cheek Kiss
This is the most preferred kind of kiss for a first date. It gives the friendly signal of “I really like you” to the other person. Place your hands on your partner’s shoulder, lean forward and plant a soft kiss on the cheek.
Chew Kiss
While kissing tell your partner to place their tongue in your mouth. Very VERY GENTLY chew on their back of the tongue. Do not suck. This creates a sensation that can be very exciting.
Copy Cat Kiss
Just imitate the way your partner kisses. Copy every act of their kiss.
Cordial Kissing (Hot/Cold Kiss, Trickle Kiss)
Sip a very small amount of your favourite drink, either hot or cold and when you just begin to kiss, pour the drink into your partner's mouth. It will leave behind a sensational feeling. Some love this type of kiss and some cringe with the thought of it.
Butterfly Kiss
A very cute gesture, you don’t really kiss in this one. Bring your faces close to each other and flutter your eyelids together. Of course, this ignites pleasure and you go ahead to have a wonderful kiss!
Earlobe Kiss
As the name suggests, you need to kiss and very gently suck on the earlobe of your partner. Be careful not to nip or bite since ear lobes are very soft. Make soft groaning noises but don’t squeal since you are kissing on the ears!
Eskimo Kiss
This is definitely one of the cutest ways to begin a kiss. Bring your faces together and very lightly rub your noses together. It is a wonderfully loving gesture that your partner will adore.
Flavour Kiss
Just before you decide to kiss your partner pop in a long lasting flavoured chewing gum into your mouth. Pass this gum along each other's mouth and see how long the flavour last.
Freeze Kiss
This is a fun kiss to experiment with. Take a small piece of ice and put it in your mouth. Don’t swallow! Gently hold your partner and kiss softly on the lips. While kissing, open your mouth and make your partner open his/her mouth lightly. Pass the ice with your tongue for an exciting sensation.
French Kiss
Also known as the “Soul Kiss”, the French kiss is a passionate form of kissing. Start with a soft kiss on the lips and very slowly start exploring your partner’s mouth with your tongue.
Forehead Kiss
The protective kiss. The motherly kiss or just friends kiss. This kiss is the most comforting kiss for anyone. Just brush your lips against their forehead.
Foot Kiss
For feet kiss you need to gently suck the toes and then kiss the foot. While kissing the foot gently massage the base of the foot. It might tickle, relax and enjoy it.
Hand Kiss
This one is ideally done by the dude. Take your girlfriend’s hand in your hand and lightly kiss the top of her hand. In the days of yore, the man used to bow or go down on one knee and then perform this kiss.
Hickey Kiss
While kissing your partner gently suck them near the neck. Please do not be too hard or bite. It will hurt them. Your kiss will leave behind a mark.
Hot n Cold Kiss
A very exciting kiss, in this, you need to put a cold drink in your mouth and tell your partner to have a warm drink. Have the sensation in your mouths and kiss passionately. You will be left with a wonderful sensation after you are done kissing.
Lasts Longer Kiss
Sit very close to each other. Your lips should almost be touching your partner's lips and arms can be where you please to keep them. Sit in this way, and see who can control without kissing the other. It is great, because even if you lose on purpose, you still WIN!
Marathon Kissing
This kiss is just to find out how long you and your partner can kiss at a stretch. Try kissing for 5-10 minutes without stopping. The longer the better right!!!
Motion Kiss
Begin kissing slowly, and then start to increase the speed. Once the kiss is sped up you should also slow it down. Too much of everything is too bad.
Neck Kiss
This is a very sensual kiss. You need to come up from behind your partner, embrace gently and kiss the back of the neck. Slowly proceed to the side while kissing and withdraw gently.
Nip Kiss
It creates a very erotic sensation. While kissing your partner gently nibble on their lips. Be careful not to bite or hurt them. If done correctly and passionately it ignites amazing sensations.
Shoulder Kiss
Known to be a sensual and loving kiss, the shoulder kiss involves coming from behind your partner and kissing on top of the shoulder a few times.
Sigh Kiss
While kissing gently lick your partner's lips with the tip of your tongue. Then blow or sigh into their lips. It will cause a tingling effect and will also intensify the kiss for sure.
Sip Kiss
This is a fun kiss to try with your partner. Take a sip of your favorite drink and leave a bit of it on your lips. Now kiss your partner and create an enjoyable and sensual feeling.
Stomach Kiss
Gently kiss and nibble on your partners stomach, sometimes it leads to other things.
Suck Kissing
A seductive kiss. Just like French Kissing, while your partner's lips are slightly parted, suck on their upper or lower lip, just for a second or two. You could continue as long as you want or you could try out a variety of kisses.
Surprise Kiss
Surprise your partner when they are asleep, get close and gently kiss them on their lips, intensify the kiss till your partner gets up.
Tickle Kiss
Begin with a French kiss and once your tongue is in your partner's mouth, stroke your tongue across the roof their mouth. Your partner could do the same to you. This will bring unbearable chills. The roof of your mouth is one of the most ticklish parts of the body. This kiss is different every time you do it.
Tongue Kiss
While French kissing your partner; gently suck their tongue while it's in your mouth. This produces a wonderful, erotic feeling for both!
Tiger Kiss
Do it like a playful tiger! They sneak upon their prey and attack without any noise. Sneak up behind your partner and grab him/her out of the blue. While he/she still tries to get over the pleasant shock, start nibbling and lightly kissing their neck and don’t forget to growl like a cub!
Upside-Down Kiss
Seen Spiderman? He lowers himself head-first while dangling from his web and passionately kisses MJ. Since you cannot dangle from anywhere, you kiss your partner when he/she is lying down or seated. Come from behind and have them tilt their head backwards. Gently kiss the lower lip and feel your partner breathing softly on your neck.
Underwater Kiss
Ever tried kissing underwater. It is a unique and a lovely feeling. Find your partner underwater and kiss them. If you gasp for breath you'll be back at the top. If you want to continue the kiss it is left entirely up to you and your partner.
Vacuum Kiss
A playful kiss. When kissing slightly suck as though you were sucking air from your partner's mouth.
Kissing is an art and a skill. One that everyone should master because it’s a beautiful piece of art that two people create together. Kisses should be meaningful yet, lustful. Kissing is where it begins and where it ends, so be a good kisser. Practice makes perfect, ask an old partner to help you (even practice with them) if they will let you (it should be fun). Look in the mirror, study your lips, practice on a pillow, but whatever you do, be a good kisser; it could make or break your relationship. Create desire through kissing, know your mouth, your lips and know how to use them when kissing another.
Subject: Ccn
This is unbelievable but it is so very true & a couple of people have been caught so be on the watch-out ...For your understanding and educating your friends and loved one Maybe you've been caught on the wrong side of the City Council by-laws or haven't yet.
If you're one of those ones who haven't, let me share my experience at the hands of city council askaris.
I was unsuspectingly buying myself a stick of gum, when I was nabbed by the askaris. It took me a few minutes to wrap my head around what was happening. I was quickly informed that it was a crime to purchase goods from a hawker, and after lying through my teeth in a bid to convince them to let me go, I was berated for being ignorant and immediately marched to a city council vehicle that was parked nearby.
The last time I checked the hawker who had sold me gum was right behind me, accompanied by another askari but to my surprise, I was the only one who got into the pick up! I guess City Council is synonymous to Kitu Kidogo because everyone who gave them some cash was let go in the course of our journey around the town center, as we looked for other 'unfortunate' Kenyans.
After the final lap, we were taken to the City council Offices at city hall, where the magistrate briskly gave out sentences for such misdemeanors; I was shocked to be fined Sh2,000 for buying a stick of gum, while hawkers were getting away with a day's work at the council offices, or a bribe of 500 bob.
So there it is. bribery in this case is cheaper than justice. Truth is with the new rules (cash cows) that have been put in place, there are bound to be many victims of ignorance. Needless to say, I was late for work but learned a very valuable lesson, CCN is always watching!
Below is a list of the 10 petty offences that I witnessed being charged in the Nairobi City Court as I waited for my turn.
Beware: The City's deadliest sins
1. Buying from hawkers
2. Sitting on a flower pot in the CBD
3. Spitting on any footpath or blowing the nose aimlessly other than into a suitable cloth or tissue
4. Taking or alighting from a matatu from a non-designated area
5. Crossing the road while you are on the phone
6. Making any kind of noise on the streets
7. Playing any game, riding or driving or propelling on a foot path
8. Graffiti
9. Owner of a burning building should pay for fire fighting services whether the owner requested for attendance or not.
10. Loitering, importuning or attempting to procure a female/male for prostitution purposes.
11. Having you car with a 'FOR SALE' sign and haven't paid the council is also punishable.
The City's survival tips
1. The moment you get into the council courts and charged, please plead guilty because only then, will you be allowed to pay a fine of a maximum of Sh2000. If you deny the charges you may be arrested for two days with no fine.
2. Do not argue with the council askaris if you know that you are guilty as charged. You might just double your fine.
3. Bribes are unacceptable after/immediately the lorry has entered the city council's compound.
4. M-PESA is not allowed to pay for a crime.
5. Someone else MUST pay your fine. You cannot pay the fine yourself after you have been charged.
Ø The other day I saw Kanjo arresting a man for pulling his suit case on its wheels, they want you to carry it n not pull it - yet to find out the fine.
Below is a summary of the newly introduced bylaw which we are all expected to adhere to:-
§ Pedestrians crossing the roads in Nairobi when traffic light is red - fine is Kshs. 10,000/=
§ Motorist moving on when the traffic light is red - fine Kshs 10,000/=
§ Pedestrians crossing the road while talking on their mobile phones - fine is Kshs. 500/=
§ Boarding at non designated PSV/matatu, bus stop - Fine 10,000/=
§ Unfastened seat belt - Fine 500/=
§ Use of mobile phone when driving Kshs10,000/=
§ Driving with worn out tyres - Fine Kshs 10,000/=
§ Double parking -Fine Kshs 20,000/=
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New Nairobi City Council traffic rules/offenses and fines 2 Years, 5 Months ago Karma: 0
** This thread discusses the content article: New Nairobi City Council traffic rules/offenses and fines **
The following are new Nairobi City Council traffic offences (rules) and consequent fines that you should be aware of:
1. Pedestrians crossing the roads in Nairobi when traffic light is red – fine is Kshs. 10,000/=
2. Motorist moving on when the traffic light is red – fine Kshs 10,000/=
3. Pedestrians crossing the road while talking on their mobile phones – fine is Kshs. 500/=
4. Boarding/Alighting at non designated matatu stops Fine 10,000/=
5. Unfastened seat belt - Fine 500/=
6. Worn out tyres -- Fine Kshs 10,000/=
7. Double parking --Fine Kshs 20,000/=
These are government taxes we can avoid; please circulate this message link as widely as possible.
Watching out for you,
George Nyongesa
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New Radical Traffic Bill Amendments Proposed
A new Traffic Amendment Bill 2012 is being proposed that will bring a raft of major changes to the existing traffic law. This will come as no surprise to Kenyans because there has been a noticeable increase in road carnage reports in the recent past. One of the more radical measures being proposed is the abolishment of the Kenya Traffic Police Department. According to the Bill, which is sponsored by Gem MP Jakoyo Midiwo, all police officers would be required to enforce traffic laws.
The Bill proposes much tougher penalties for offenders while introducing other regulations that it hopes will make it harder for man made errors, usually the cause of many accidents, to occur. The following is a quick overview of some of the major points in the Bill.
➢ The Administrative Unit of the Kenya Police Service known as the Traffic Department would be abolished
➢ Ownership of vehicle registration plates would be given to the Kenya Revenue Authority (KRA).
➢ In the event that the ownership of a vehicle changes, the registration plates are to be surrendered to the registrar of motor vehicles first. Failure to do so would attract a fine not exceeding KES 30 000, and a subsequent KES 10 000 for every month the law is not observed.
➢ Driver's licence holders would have to undergo eye tests every three years. They would need to present a medical practitioner's report in order to renew their licence. People failing to adhere to this requirement would be disqualified from holding a licence for three years.
➢ Driving under the influence would attract a penalty of 10 years in jail or a minimum of KES 500 000 fine, or both.
➢ Overlapping, driving on pavements and pedestrian walkways or using petrol stations to avoid traffic would get you a three month prison term or a fine of KES 30 000, or both.
➢ The licence of a person found guilty of exceeding speed limits would be invalid for not less than 3 years if the limit is exceeded by up to 10 KPH or if the offense is repeated more than three times.
➢ The Inspector General of Police would designate areas where Police will be required to erect roadblocks.
➢ There will be road signs showing the prescribed speed limits.
➢ PSV drivers and conductors would be required to wear badges and uniforms. In addition, the PSV drivers would be required to do a compulsory competence test every two years.
➢ Motorcycles would have to be insured against third party risks and the riders would be compelled to wear helmets and reflector jackets. Penalties for contravening this law would attract a KES 10 000 fine or a one-year jail term.
Meanwhile, the Police spokesman Eric Kiraithe welcomed the proposed changes but wanted an inclusion of all the stakeholders first before it could be enacted. According to Mr Kiraithe, it is important for the public, the judiciary and the police to be involved in order to have a proper and positive change in the traffic laws.
The current Traffic Commandant, Joseph Ole Tito was not comfortable with the idea of disbanding the entire Traffic Police Department. It is Mr Ole Tito's opinion that the police force would lose its grip on the traffic situation on the country if the traffic duties were to be spread to the entire force.
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A summary of the new traffic laws in Kenya effective immediately
Posted on November 9th, 2012
Categories: News
Here is a summary of the new traffic rules caused by the Amendment of section 12 of Cap 403 of the laws of Kenya. The president signed the amendments yesterday meaning they are in operation from today.
Number plates: When you sell your vehicle, you should surrender the number plates to the registrar of motor vehicles. Remember to surrender the number plates to the registrar otherwise you risk being arrested and fined
Overlapping, undertaking, obstruction, driving on pavement or through a petrol station to avoid traffic: You risk a fine of Kshs 100,000 -300,000 or one year in jail or BOTH
Over speeding: When you over speed, you risk a fine of Kshs 10,000 or 3 months imprisonment or both
Careless Driving: Penalty of Ksh 500,000 or 10 years imprisonment or both
Careless driving causing death: Life Imprisonment. This is being treated like murder.
Driving under influence of alcohol: A fine of Ksh 500, 000 or ten years in jail or both.
PSV Operators: Should adhere to the uniforms and badges rules
Motor Cycle operators: ONE PASSENGER only and the passenger and rider must be in reflective vests and helmets – otherwise you risk a fine of Kshs 10,000 and in default 12 months imprisonment
Other changes as below:
Road blocks are to be gazetted prior to being mounted by the police
Driving licenses of speed limit violators shall be suspended for not less than 3 years if the person has exceeded speed limit by more than 10 kph and if offence is repeated 3 or more times.
Mandatory eye test every 3 years for licensed drivers. And if you fail the test then license is withdrawn.
All law enforcement officers (regular police and APs) are now effectively mandated to deal with traffic issues with the abolition of the Traffic Department under the Kenya Police Service Act.
MOST IMPORTANT: SHARE THIS INFORMATION WITH DRIVERS, COLLEAGUES, FAMILY & FRIENDS
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The 10 silliest things ever said by politicians
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Comedians would probably not exist without politicians, whose speeches have always been full of wisdom. Here is our rating of the 10 most stupid things ever said by politicians all over the world.
1. “Queen Elizabeth Taylor.” – Thai Prime Minister Banharn Silpa-archa, referring to the Queen of England.
2. “In Iran, we don’t have homosexuals, like in your country." – Iranian President Mahmoud Ahmadinejad, referring to the USA while addressing Columbia University.
3. "I would never approach a small-breasted woman." – President Clinton, denying that he had sexually harassed Kathleen Willey.
4. “Life has become better, life has become more fun!” [«Ãミ–Ãミ¸Ñ‚ÑŒ ÑÂチÑ‚Ãミ°Ãミ»Ãミ¾ Ãミ»ÑƒÑ‡ÑˆÃミµ, Ãミ¶Ãミ¸Ñ‚ÑŒ ÑÂチÑ‚Ãミ°Ãミ»Ãミ¾ Ãミ²ÃミµÑÂチÃミµÃミ»ÃミµÃミµ!»] Josef Stalin. The irony of this phrase is that he said it at the peak of mass repressions organized by him at the end of 1930s.
5. “I am not a communist and neither is the revolutionary movement.” – Fidel Castro. But he also said: “I am a Marxist-Leninist and I will be one until the last day of my life.”
6. "Our enemies are innovative and resourceful, and so are we. They never stop thinking about new ways to harm our country and our people, and neither do we." – Washington, D.C., August 5, 2004 – George W. Bush.
7. "This is a great day for France!" – President Richard Nixon at French President Charles de Gaulle's funeral.
8. "I've now been in 57 states – I think one left to go." – Barack Obama at a campaign event in Beaverton, Oregon.
9. “We are not without accomplishment. We have managed to distribute poverty equally.” – Nguen Co Thatch, Vietnamese Foreign Minister.
10. Senator John McCain in his presidential run: “I was in Germany over the weekend and President Putin of Germany gave one of the old Cold War speeches as he addressed the conference there.”
Spelling Joke
Believe it or not you can read it.
I cdnuolt blveiee taht I cluod aulaclty uesdnatnrd waht I was rdanieg. The phaonmneal pweor of the hmuan mnid. Aoccdrnig to a rscheearch at Cmabrigde Uinervtisy, it deosn't mttaer inwaht oredr the ltteers in a wrod are, the olny iprmoatnt tihng is taht the frist and lsat ltteer be in the rghit pclae. The rset can be a taotl mses and you can sitll raed it wouthit a porbelm. Tihs is bcuseae the huamn mnid deos not raed ervey lteter by istlef, but the wrod as a wlohe. Amzanig huh? yaeh and I awlyas thought slpeling was ipmorantt.
Subject: 4 WIVES
THE FOUR WIVES
Once upon a time there was a rich King who had four wives. He loved the 4th wife the most and adorned her with rich robes and treated her to the finest of delicacies. He gave her nothing but the best.
He also loved the 3rd wife very much and was always showing her off to neighboring kingdoms. However, he feared that one day she would leave him for another.
He also loved his 2nd wife. She was his confidant and was always kind, considerate and patient with him. Whenever the King faced a problem, he could confide in her, and she would help him get through the difficult times.
The King's 1st wife was a very loyal partner and had made great contributions in maintaining his wealth and kingdom. However, he did not love the first wife. Although she loved him deeply, he hardly took notice of her!
One day, the King fell ill and he knew his time was short. He thought of his luxurious life and wondered, 'I now have four wives with me, but when I die, I'll be all alone.'
Thus, he asked the 4th wife, 'I have loved you the most, endowed you with the finest clothing and showered great care over you. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me company?' 'No way!', replied the 4th wife, and she walked away without another word. Her answer cut like a sharp knife right into his heart.
The sad King then asked the 3rd wife, 'I have loved you all my life. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me company?' 'No!', replied the 3rd wife. 'Life is too good! When you die, I'm going to remarry!' His heart sank and turned cold.
He then asked the 2nd wife, 'I have always turned to you for help and you've always been there for me. When I die, will you follow me and keep me company?' 'I'm sorry, I can't help you out this time!', replied the 2nd wife. 'At the very most, I can only walk with you to your grave...’ Her answer struck him like a bolt of lightning, and the King was devastated.
Then a voice called out: 'I'll go with you. I'll follow you no matter where you go.' The King looked up, and there was his first wife. She was very skinny as she suffered from malnutrition and neglect. Greatly grieved, the King said, 'I should have taken much better care of you when I had the chance!'
In truth, we all have the 4 wives in our lives:
Our 4th wife is our BODY. No matter how much time and effort we lavish in making it look good, it will leave us when we die.
Our 3rd wife is our POSSESSIONS, STATUS AND WEALTH. When we die, it will all go to others.
Our 2nd wife is our FAMILY AND FRIENDS. No matter how much they have been there for us, the furthest they can stay by us is up to the grave.
And our 1st wife is our SOUL. Often neglected in pursuit of wealth, power and pleasures of the world. However, our Soul is the only thing that will follow us wherever we go.Cultivate, strengthen and cherish it now, for it is the only part of us that will follow us to the throne of God and continue with us throughout Eternity.
Thought for the day:
Remember, when the world pushes you to your knees, you're in the perfect position to pray.
Prayer For Peace
¡°Make me an instrument of peace”
God, make me an instrument of your peace
Where there is hatred, let me sow love;
Where there is injury, pardon;
Where there is doubt, faith;
Where there is despair, hope;
Where there is darkness, light;
Where there is sadness, joy.
O God, grant that I may seek
Not so much to be consoled as to console;
To be understood as to understand;
To be loved as to love.
For it is in giving that we receive;
It is in pardoning that we are pardoned,
And it is in accepting the messiah Jesus Christ and dying to self (selfishness) that we are born to Eternal Life.
Amen
Hekima Lenten Peace Campaign 2008
Here are some sms Jokes
A chicken sandwidch walked into the bar, ordered some food and beer. The bartender says: "Sorry, we don't serve food here".
Whats the most efficient money reducing agent known to man-kind! WOMAN:
What do you call a handcuffed man? - Trustworthy.
Borrow money from pessimists--they don't expect it back
Nothing in the known universe travels faster than a bad check.
I'm not into working out. My philosophy: No pain. No pain.
Did you hear about the idiot who walked around the world? He drowned.
My friend isn't very bright.The other day she was at the store and just as she was heading for our car,someone stole it. I said.......did u see the guy that did it?She said......No, but i got the license plate
If you can't change your mind, are you sure you still have one?
Did you hear about the new Chinese Cookbook being sold only at pet stores?
"101 Ways to Wok Your Dog"
A successful man is one who makes more money than his wife can spend.
What's the difference between a man and E.T.?
- E.T. phoned home.
What is the thinnest book in the world?
What Men Know About Women.
What's the quietest place in the world? The complaint department at the parachute packing plant
Here are is some net humour
Dear Employee:
As a result of the reduction of money budgeted for department areas, we
are forced to cut down on our number of personnel.
Under this plan, older employees will be asked to take early retirement, thus permitting the retention of younger people who represent our future. Therefore, a program to phase out older personnel by the end of the current fiscal year, via retirement, will be placed into effect immediately.
* This program will be known as SLAP (Sever Late-Aged Personnel).
Employees who are SLAPPED will be given the opportunity to look for jobs
outside the company.
* SLAPPED employees can request a review of their employment records
before actual retirement takes place. This review phase of the program is
called SCREW.
* SCREW (Survey of Capabilities of Retired Early Workers). All employees
who have been SLAPPED and SCREWED may file an appeal with upper
management.
* This appeal is called SHAFT (Study by Higher Authority Following
Termination).
Under the terms of the new policy, an employee may be SLAPPED once,
SCREWED twice, but may be SHAFTED as many times as the company
deems appropriate.
* If an employee follows the above procedure, he/she will be entitled to get:
HERPES
(Half Earnings for Retired Personnel's Early Severance) or CLAP
(Combined Lump sum Assistance Payment).
* As HERPES and CLAP are considered benefit plans, any employee who
has received HERPES or CLAP will no longer be SLAPPED or SCREWED
by the company.
* Management wishes to assure the younger employees who remain on
board that the company will continue its policy of training employees
through our: Special High Intensity Training (SHIT).
* We take pride in the amount of SHIT our employees receive.
* We have given our employees more SHIT than any company in this area.
* If any employee feels they do not receive enough SHIT on the job, see
your immediate supervisor. Your supervisor is specially trained to make sure
you receive all the SHIT you can stand.
And, once again, thanks for all your years of service with us.
Here are is some net humour
WHAT THEY TELL YOU IN CAPS what it means in small
JOIN OUR FAST-PACED COMPANY": We have no time to train you.
"CASUAL WORK ATMOSPHERE": We don't pay enough to expect that you'll dress up; well, a couple of the real daring guys wear earrings.
"MUST BE DEADLINE ORIENTED": You'll be six months behind schedule on your first day.
"SOME OVERTIME REQUIRED": Some time each night and some time each weekend.
"DUTIES WILL VARY": Anyone in the office can boss you around.
"MUST HAVE AN EYE FOR DETAIL": We have no quality control.
Six Reasons IT is Still a Great Career Path
By Don Willmott | Jul 14, 2011 | Posted In IT & Data Center, Job News
Tags: IT
Every once in a while you’ll come across a doom-and-gloom article along the lines of “Ten Reasons for Quitting IT.” Writer and Linux expert Jack Wallen must have been in a particularly bad mood when he penned this piece for TechRepublic back in February. Weirdly, when he asked commenters to chime in on what kinds of careers they’d rather have, a long conversation about family farming took place. Is IT so bad that your average techie would be happier cleaning chicken coops?
Of course not. Perhaps it’s time for an optimistic mid-year reminder of why information technology is the place to be today, and why it will continue to be the place to be in the years and decades to come.
IT Is Interesting
First of all, technology is an ever-changing puzzle that never fails to keep its practitioners engaged. The negative spin is that IT changes too fast and is too hard and too confusing to ever master completely. So what? You don’t have to. All you have to do is embrace your specialty and hang on tight as it pulls you into the future. Yes, you need to keep learning along the way, but isn’t that what the human mind is designed for? Coal miners don’t learn something new every day, but you do.
IT Leads the Way
Journalists often talk about the fun of having a “front row seat to history.” IT has that, too, in a way. Technologists are the people who lead their organizations into the future. They did it 30 years ago by putting PCs on desks. They did it 20 years ago when they started hooking up those PCs to the Internet. They did it 10 years ago when they began to deploy sophisticated network-based apps, the kinds of things that are still in their infancy today. Your colleagues depend on you to show them what the future will bring. It’s fun to the be the first one to know, isn’t it?
IT Is Everywhere
It’s easy to forget that IT isn’t just about server rooms in the basements of big city skyscrapers, designed solely to process petabytes of boring data for Fortune 500 spreadsheets. Technology is everywhere: in real estate offices and college libraries and stadiums and at turtle sanctuaries on Caribbean islands. Your skills can be of use in any kind of organization anywhere. Companies need to become more efficient and to connect. That’s what IT delivers.
IT Makes Money
Over the past few years we’ve all read articles about how IT has earned its place at the boardroom table and how from the CIO down, technology is regarded as a central part of the business process, not just an infrastructural enabler. Techies don’t make technology cases anymore. They make business cases, and that makes them invaluable to the organization.
IT Will Grow
Although we’re still in a downturn, the number of IT jobs in the U.S. has reached its pre-recession level of 4 million, and is certain to keep rising as survey after survey tells us that the “jobs of the future” will have technological components, and that the nation’s leading growth industries — biotech, healthcare, energy — require lots of technology jobs. Politicians on both sides of the aisle talk about this all the time. You’re sure to hear about retraining for technology jobs in lots of 2012 stump speeches.
IT Will Save the World
One of the main reasons I’ve always enjoyed technology is that it makes me — and the world — much more efficient. Yes, it uses up a whole lot of energy, but people are working on that (maybe you should be too). Stop and look around for a minute, and you’ll see that the biggest problems the world faces — ecological, economic, social — can all be addressed by cleverly deployed technological solutions. Some of them haven’t been invented yet, but they will be, perhaps by someone like you. Ten years ago we couldn’t have imagined that Twitter and smartphones would help foment revolutions or that websites would help us make microloans to Cambodian farmers, but today they do. And tomorrow…
About Don Willmott
Don Willmott reports on the Internet, technology, and consumer electronics for a wide variety of publications and Web sites. He was Yahoo! Internet Life’s Technology Editor and also spent 14 years at PC Magazine in a variety of editorial positions. Willmott is the author of the book “PC Magazine Best of the Web” (Wiley, 2004). He lives in New York City.
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5 essential qualities of a great CEO
June 28, 2011 | Jeanne M. Sullivan
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(Editor’s note: Jeanne M. Sullivan is General Partner at StarVest Partners. She submitted this story to VentureBeat.)
I’ve met thousands of CEOs – good ones, bad ones, short ones, tall ones, new ones and seasoned ones.
I feel strongly that the CEO, despite the accomplishments made by other members of the team, is the key person who most often correlates to the success of the company. The VP of sales might argue that he or she brings in the revenue. The CTO might take credit for building the product. And the VP of marketing could say they’re responsible for putting it all together and bringing it to market. But it’s the leader at the top that’s the key driver behind how well a company will ultimately perform.
So, what makes a great CEO? It comes down to a few things:
A great CEO leads. They lead the team by creating a strong culture among the troops and continually fueling a vibrant “esprit de corps.” They put together the financing. I have observed that they do not just point the way – they say, “Follow me up the mountain, and I will show you the way.”
The great ones are both cheerleaders and task masters, only most never use those terms to describe their function. The leading CEO makes employees want to work with the same mad fervor to help achieve the company’s goals.
A great CEO is clear. They define and communicate the strategy and create buy-in for this strategy along the way among the team members. The greatness shows because they know they have already gotten the troops together to help build the strategy or the go-to-market plan, and they provide employees with many chances to weigh in with their views.
Employees are not left wondering about the strategy because they can repeat the strategy. It might even be laminated and hanging on the office walls.
A great CEO gets their hands dirty. They will help create a go-to-market distribution plan and will drive revenue and results. They are with employees in the field closing the big sale or figuring out why the company lost one. They are right there, balancing the priorities and inspiring their team to help win the next opportunity. They are calling their Rolodex for a partnership or connection. They are quick to sort out mistakes in a “blameless autopsy” so that success may be achieved the next time.
A great CEO is strategic. They know what to do and how to do it. Here is the magic ingredient: He or she is able to look right, look left and look out over time to see the moves and countermoves of the competition and react accordingly.
They are quick to call an ad hoc meeting or an offsite if it requires a group brainstorm. They understand their team intimately, both gathering and relying upon their troops’ input.
A great CEO knows when they aren’t a great CEO. They know what they’re good at – and when it isn’t being a CEO. They’re willing to seek others more able than themselves to take the helm. They might reposition themselves as the Chairman or Chief Strategy Officer or Chief Revenue Officer and can realize that maybe it is time to lead a larger organization, or smaller.
If a company is in its early days and seeking financing, as an investor I often ask myself: “Is this the long-term CEO for the company? Can this person take the company public or create an exit?” If the answer is “no,” this can often lead the investor to say “no” to the investment.
A sense of humor, maniacal focus on the goal and critical self-awareness are critical ingredients for success.
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To potentials
Successful daters are those who don't need to date anymore. They found their soul mate, married and are now in a relationship which is growing stronger, more supportive and loving over time. When you are dating, don't ask yourself: can this person give me what I need, ask instead (or in addition): can I see myself wanting to give to this person for the rest of my life? Do I see in this person such a vista of potential that I want to invest in him or her?
Step back, observe and consider: Does this person have the character, values and goals that will foster a desire in me to help him (or her)?
A focus on giving (healthy giving without an agenda, neediness or negativity) fosters feelings of connection and love. This binds people together in such a way that even challenges will bring them closer together.
So can you find this out in the first 7 minutes? Unlikely. But give this question a try - the next time you sit physically or electronically across from a date, ask yourself: is there any possibility I would enjoy giving to this person? And if the answer is yes - go on another date. Who knows, this could be the start of an eternal connection.
Career Development Centre
The inner person…his role in getting a job.
Psychologists say that there is more to a person than the physical outlook. Most people don’t know that they are made of more than flesh and the moment you realize that then you become an enigma immediately. To define it in simple terms, an inner person is the voice within, the whisper in everything you do and to Christians it is known as the spirit. This part of the human nature is very influential and determines your future. In other word instinct is very important in anything you do. I suppose you have watched the movie, ‘the secret’ or read the novel. To some sects within our Christian community don’t seem to agree with this theory but you become what you think. The more positive you think, the more positive things turn out for you. Assume that you have been invited for an interview and you are pessimistic or negative about nailing the job, trust me you can’t nail it.
Positive thinking is really encouraged especially when you have problems. Looking for a job can be as a result of finishing studies, wanting to change jobs, change of career, and many other factors. These can be the most trying times in a person’s life. Any moment you think negatively, shun the thought away and bring in a new positive one. Today we want to explain the importance of the inner person in giving you the positive thinking that you really need at any times and to assure you of success. Big minds will tell you that to be where you want to be you need to start thinking towards that goal. Let me share a small example from my past, when I was leaving my second job, I was moving into a future of absurdity because I wanted to open up my business and today when I look back Iwonder why hadn’t acted so early in my life.
When you realize your inner person, that is the point in which you will start developing into a complete human being. The inner person gives you:
1. Your personality: Believe me that the unseen person defines who you are and for those who know by now is that your personality will give you confidence and character. You will notice that your dressing style, your walking style, eating manners and the general etiquette follows what is build inside. Just imagine one day being invited with a local CEO for lunch, what can you say in a conversation? I bet you will be thinking of things like, asking him for a job, a favour, part of his salary, which car he drives, how you came on foot and the sort of things that elevate your demeanor while you should be thinking that in 5 years you should be making more money than he does and live better than he does. Be positive.
2. Attitude: Your self-feeling towards what surrounds you is as a result of the inner you. You will hate good things easily because you can’t reach them, you will hate success because you think you can’t be successful and you will keep blaming others and the government for your poverty. Today I tell you for sure that the moment you get rid of bad attitude and be positive towards the environment you will start attracting success to you. If you have been in a corporate office, there are these kinds of people that behave like bosses and disassociate from failure in the office, they are made bosses very easily. They attract success. Whenever you are today, I ask of you to shun negative responses to questions and give a negative response in a positive way. If someone asks you if you have a job, don’t say there are no jobs these days or the government is corrupt but tell them you are doing well.
3. Decision on right or wrong: You will realize that when you are doing a wrong thing, there is something that draws you back to do the right one and if you don’t have that voice then you are not a complete person. Always endeavor to do the right thing or follow the voice within. The decision to do the right thing or walk away from provocation totally lies with you and when you do right things on your part expect the same from others. What goes around comes around and trust me the inner voice will always tell you the direction that you should forge.
In everyday application for jobs and vacancies, put your intuition first, it will guide you how to go. If you believe in God the better for you but if you don’t look at what defines your personality. Once you identify your personality, you will know the positives and negatives of your character. This will help you ion building the confidence in your interviews, read widely to have topics to discuss with people you are interacting with, or watch educational documentaries. In simple terms look educated, sound widely read and be learned. These are things that can even define your walking style and poses during a conversation.
We want you to realize who you are today.
We wish you all the best in your career search.
Joke from Career Development Centre
What does your profession mean: A good Joke.
Have you ever thought what your career means? In the comic world people have a way of looking at even the professional descriptions of jobs and can put a smile on your face. I found these definitions this morning and thought that I share.
Please enjoy:
Definition of:
1. Marketing - You are ambitious yet stupid. You chose a marketing degree to avoid having to study in college, concentrating instead on drinking and socializing which is pretty much what your job responsibilities are now. Least compatible with Sales.
2. Sales - Laziest of all signs, often referred to as "marketing without a degree." You are also self-centered and paranoid. Unless someone calls you and begs you to take their money, you like to avoid contact with customers so you can "concentrate on the big picture." You seek admiration for your golf game throughout your life.
3. Technology - Unable to control anything in your personal life, you are instead content to completely control everything that happens at your workplace. Often even you don't understand what you are saying but who the hell can tell. It is written that Geeks shall inherit the Earth.
4. Engineering - One of only two signs that actually studied in school. It is said that ninety percent of all persona adverts are placed by engineers. You can be happy with yourself; your office is full of all the latest gadgets. However, we all know what is really causing your personality syndrome.
5. Accounting - The only other sign that is studied in school. You are mostly immune from office politics. You are the most feared person in the organization; combined with your extreme organizational traits, the majority of rumors concerning you say that you are completely insane.
6. Human Resources - Ironically, given your access to confidential information, you tend to be the biggest gossip within the organization. Possibly the only other person that does less work than marketing, you are unable to return any calls today because you have to get a haircut, have lunch and then mail a letter.
7. Management/Middle Management - Catty, cut-throat, yet completely spineless, you are destined to remain at your current job for the rest of your life. Unable to make a single decision you tend to measure your worth by the number of meetings you can schedule for yourself. Best suited to marry other "Middle Managers" as everyone in you social circle is a "Middle Manager."
8. Senior Management - (See above - Same sign, different title)
9. Customer Service - Bright, cheery, positive, you are a fifty-cent cab ride from taking your own life. As children very few of you asked your parents for a little cubicle for your room and a headset so you could pretend to play "Customer Service." Continually passed over for promotions, your best bet is to sleep with your manager.
10. Consultant - Lacking any specific knowledge, you use acronyms to avoid revealing your utter lack of experience. You have convinced yourself that your "skills" are in demand and that you could get a higher paying job with any other organization in a heartbeat. You will spend an eternity contemplating these career opportunities without ever taking direct action.
11. Recruiter, "Headhunter" - As a "person" that profits from the success of others, you are disdained by most people who actually work for a living. Paid on commission and susceptible to alcoholism, your ulcers and frequent heart attacks correspond directly with fluctuations in the stock market.
12. Partner, President, CEO - You are brilliant or lucky. Your inability to figure out various complex systems such as the fax machine suggest the latter.
13. Government worker - Paid to take days off. Government workers are genius inventors, like the invention of new holidays. They usually suffer from deep depression or anxiety and usually commit serious crimes while on the job... Thus the term "GO POSTAL"
These are just jokes and take them as they are. I found it this morning and thought that I share with you maybe to make your day. Don’t take these definitions serious.
Joke
Omwami at bar in New York:
Man on his right says, "Johnny Walker single"
Man on his left says, "Peter Scotch single"
Omwami says, "Wekesa Johnstone Married"
Plaid_Pope PA Pope Benedict XVI
I really tired of just calling for peace everywhere. my speech writer needs some new material
30 Mar
Never be desperate about a job or anything and if you are never show it. When going into an interview, approach it like you do NOT need the job or as a general conversation.
2. Be satisfied with your status whether poor or rich.
3. Fake it till you make it. Ever heard of this saying? If you don’t have behave like you do, for sure you will.
4. Positive thinking especially about self. Love yourself.
5. Do extensive research and know basic facts about life and your area of specialization.
6. Learn to relate things when asked about anything.
7. Say you don’t know if for sure you don’t. Do NOT ever lie to knowing something which you don’t.
8. Be careful about your facial expressions because they need to be positive even when you are giving a negative response. Otherwise your arrogance will be a vice
9. Love others and be friendly. Create links and networks.
This and more will help your self esteem but we sum it up into one, positive thinking and loving yourself.
How to Please a Woman
Follow this advice if you wish to impress your girlfriend.
Compliment her; respect her; honor her; cuddle her; caress her; love her; kiss her; stroke her; buy things for her; tease her; comfort her; protect her; hug her; hold her; spend money on her; wine and dine her; listen to her; care for her; stand by her; support her; hold her.
How to Please a Man
Follow this advice if you wish to impress your boyfriends.
Show up naked; Bring with food and drinks.
Getting Rid of another:
Getting rid of a woman is easy, tell her to get lost and she’ll be gone. Getting rid of a man without hurting his masculinity is a problem. “Get out” and “I never want to see you again” might sound like a challenge. If you want to get rid of a man, I suggest saying, “I love you… I want to marry you… I want to have your children.” Sometimes they leave skid marks.
Success:
A successful man is one who makes more money than his wife can spend. A successful woman is one who can find such a man.
Marriage:
When you marry your miss right, remember her first name is “always”
A woman marries a man expecting he will change, but he doesn’t.
A man marries a woman expecting that she won’t change, but she does.
Arguments:
A woman has the last word in any argument.
Anything a man says after that is the beginning of a new argument.
Yawa! do you know I personalized my browser. Its no longer OPERA mini. Its OMERA mini.
So omera do you know PILSNER mean 'People in Luoland Say Nothing Except Raila'
Yawa, I'm not a fisherman. I'm an aquaculture industrialist.
a responsibility to "cooperate with all men in the establishment of the kingdom of God, of universal brotherhood, Justice, truth and peace on earth."
16 Signs of False Conversion in Christ Jesus!
Jul 17th, 2011 by joy 4christ
A false conversion in Christ Jesus Will not seek God or thirst for God and do not have the fruits of the spirit and repentance.
1. A false conversion in Christ Jesus Will not seek God or thirst for God and do not have the fruits of the spirit and repentance.
2. A false conversion in Christ Jesus will gratify the desires of the sinful nature and repeatedly engage in sinful behavior.
3. A false conversion in Christ Jesus will fall away when “trouble or persecution comes.
4. A false conversion in Christ Jesuswill show little or no evidence of salvation by the way they live their lives and they do not resist sin and temptations.
5. A false conversion in Christ Jesus lacks conviction of sin and they have a unbroken patterns of sineven after they receive the knowledge of truth.
6. A false conversion in Christ Jesus will Appear Outwardly Godly & Appear Very Spiritual as well as religiousbut inwardly they are ungodly, unholy.
7. A false conversion in Christ Jesus will Compromise with the World by keeping one foot in the world and another foot in Gods word.
8. A false conversion in Christ Jesus will choose not to obey Gods word and his commandments.
9. A false conversion in Christ Jesus will live by his own feelings and opinions instead of Gods opinions.
10. A false conversion in Christ Jesus do not put God and his Word first in their life rather they are more into worldly materialism, fun and enjoyment.
11. When you rebuke or correct a false conversion in Christ Jesus, he will mock at you or he will find excuses to defend himself.
12. A false conversion in Christ Jesus are often filled with pride and arrogance, they boast and justify about their sinful lifestyle proudly by living Contrary to God's Word.
13. A false conversion in Christ Jesus do not have self-control, they hate discipline, hate God's law, commandments and his way.
14. A false conversion in Christ Jesus will lack Godly example in their behavior and life styles and they do not live a holy and righteous life.
15. A false conversion in Christ Jesus has the evidence of works of flesh, darkness and works of Satan.
16. A false conversion in Christ Jesus will not adorn himself with decent modest apparel which is pleasing and glorifying to God.
16 Signs of True Conversion in Christ Jesus!
Jul 15th, 2011 by joy 4christ
The power of Gods Spirit dwelling in us WILL change us to be become more godly and to like more godlier things instead of just merely “professing Christ as Lord and Savior.
The power of Gods Spirit dwelling in us WILL change us to be become more godly and to like more godlier things instead of just merely “professing Christ as Lord and Savior.
1.A true conversion in Christ Jesus Will display the fruits of the Spirit and fruit of righteousness in their lives such as love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control.
2.A true conversion in Christ Jesus will be blameless and upright man, fearing God and turning away from evil.
3.A true conversion in Christ Jesus will pursue righteousness, godliness, faith, love, perseverance and gentleness.
4.A true conversion in Christ Jesus will be dead to sin but alive to God in Christ Jesus.
5.A true conversion in Christ Jesus will say No” to ungodliness and worldly passions, and lives a self-controlled, upright and godly lives in this present age, while he waits for the blessed hope the glorious appearing of great God and Savior, Jesus Christ
6. A true conversion in Christ Jesus will behave decently, as in the daytime, not in orgies and drunkenness, not in sexual immorality and debauchery, not in dissension and jealousy. Rather he clothe himself with the Lord Jesus Christ.
7. A true conversion in Christ Jesus will have a Fruit of Repentance ,Fruit of Thanksgiving,Fruit of Good Works (Colossians 1:10), Fruit of Repentance (Matthew 3:8).
8. A true conversion in Christ Jesus will not show the works of the flesh such as adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lewdness, idolatry, sorcery, hatred, contentions, jealousies, outbursts of wrath, selfish ambitions, dissentions, heresies, envy, murders, drunkenness and revelries.
9. A true conversion in Christ Jesus will Love the Lord with all their soul, mind and heart.
10. A true conversion in Christ Jesus will seek first God’s Kingdom, NOT Worldly Wealth & Possessions
11. A true conversion in Christ Jesus will take every opportunity To Do Good & Preach the Gospel.
12. A true conversion in Christ Jesus will be the doers of the word not just hearers only.
13. A true conversion in Christ Jesus will avoid all perverse talk and corrupted speech.
14. A true conversion in Christ Jesus will put on the Full Armor of God Endures Hardships, Sufferings, and Trials through Christ by resisting sin and temptations.
15. A true conversion in Christ Jesus will Love God's Commandments & Obey God's Word And in His law they meditates day and night.
16. A true conversion in Christ Jesus will Pursue Holiness in Everything they Do and Acknowledge & Obey Gods will for Their Lives
MY Opera cyndibeautiful
"PRIMITIVE"
Thursday, September 27, 2012 8:48:57 PM
My heart keeps beating me to death
i see you move and i can't catch
my breath
i want to touch you with my lips
i want to touch you with a kiss
my heart keeps pounding
like a fist
i see you there and i just can't resist
you make me tremble like this
you make me tremble like a jellyfish
it's primitive
you got me
oh
it's primitive
you make me feel
primitive
when you lock me in your arms
you chain me to your heart
...oh
i hear you calling out my name
when you talk your words they
numb my brain
you make this fire in me start
i want to touch you with my heart
i hear you whisper in the dark
and when you touch me i just come
apart i feel the ferer in your
hands we feel things we don't even
understand
it's primitive
you got me
oh
it's primitive
you make me feel
primitive
when you lock me in your arms
you chain me to your heart
...oh
http://my.opera.com/cyndibeautiful/blog/2012/09/27/primitive
Don't cry no more.......
Monday, August 20, 2012 4:37:48 AM
Don't cry no more
wipe away your tear
don't cry no more baby
wipe away your tears
and i know , know
that your love is real
don't cry don't cry
i'm begging you
don't cry no more baby
i'm begging you every tear
you shed tells me that your
love is true you cried me a sea
now i believe without
a doubt that you
really,really,really love me
you cried me a sea
now i believe without a doubt
that you really,really.really
love me don't cry no more
wipe away your tears
don't cry no more baby
wipe away your tears
now i know ,i know
that your love is real
i dont want you to cry
i dont want you to cry
it's summer time and the
living is easy i don't want
you to cry.
http://my.opera.com/cyndibeautiful/blog/dont-cry-no-more
I HAD A LOVE
Sunday, September 9, 2012 4:54:17 PM
I had a love
sweeter than you'll know
oh i had a lifetime in a moment
he was a boy
i loved so tenderly
he could have been
but he walken away -oh oh oh
baby don't go
ithought maybe i should have
told you long before
something inside is erasing
the time back to the memory
when you were mine.
http://my.opera.com/cyndibeautiful/blog/2012/09/09/i-had-a-love
177 MENTAL TOUGHNESS SECRETS OF THE WORLD CLASS by steve siebold
1. The Middle Class competes . . . the World Class creates.
2. The Middle Class avoids risk . . . the World Class manages risk.
3. The Middle Class lives in delusion . . . the World Class lives in objective reality.
4. The Middle Class loves to be comfortable . . . the World Class is comfortable being uncomfortable.
5. The Middle Class has a lottery mentality . . . the World Class has an abundance mentality.
6. The Middle Class hungers for security . . . the World Class doesn’t believe that security exists.
7. The Middle Class sacrifices growth for safety . . . the World Class sacrifices safety for growth.
8. The Middle Class operates out of fear and scarcity . . . the World Class operates from love and.abundance.
9. The Middle Class focuses on having . . . the World Class focuses on being.
10. The Middle Class sees themselves as victims . . . the World Class sees themselves as responsible.
11. The Middle Class slows down . . . the World Class calms down.
12. The Middle Class is frustrated . . . the World Class is grateful.
13. The Middle Class has pipedreams . . . the World Class has vision.
14. The Middle Class is ego-driven . . . the World Class is spirit driven.
15. The Middle Class is problem oriented . . . the World Class is solution oriented.
16. The Middle Class thinks they know enough . . . the World Class is eager to learn.
17. The Middle Class chooses fear . . . the World Class chooses growth.
18. The Middle Class is boastful . . . the World Class is humble.
19. The Middle Class trades time for money . . . the World Class trades ideas for money.
20. The Middle Class denies their intuition . . . the World Class embraces their intuition.
21. The Middle Class seeks riches . . . the World Class seeks wealth.
22. The Middle Class believes their vision only when they see it . . . the World Class knows they will see their vision when they believe it.
23. The Middle Class coaches through logic . . . the World Class coaches through emotion.
24. The Middle Class speaks the language of fear . . . the World Class speaks the language of love.
25. The Middle Class believes problem solving stems from knowledge . . . the World Class believes problem solving stems from will.
Only in America…..do drugstores make the sick walk all the way to the
back of the store to get their prescriptions while healthy people can buy
cigarettes at the front.
Only in America……do people order double cheeseburgers, large fries, and
a diet coke. !
Only in America……do banks leave both doors open and then chain the pens
to the counters.
Only in America……do we leave cars worth thousands of dollars in the driveway and put our useless junk in the garage.
Only in America……do we buy hot dogs in packages of ten and buns inpackages of eight.
Only in America……do we use the word ‘politics’ to describe the process
so well: ‘Poli’ in Latin meaning ‘many’ and ‘tics’ meaning ‘bloodsucking creatures’.
Only in America……do they have drive-up ATM machines with Braille
lettering.